how to reach the “top” of an orgasm /u/charcuter1e Sex

i’ve F always used primarily clitoral stimulation to orgasm, as penetration can be painful for me. i do enjoy it when i also am rubbing my clit as well but penetration alone rarely actually brings me to the point of orgasm. when i masturbate its usually with a vibrator or just manual.

i feel like when i am at the point of orgasm i enter and it almost feels like different “levels” of sensation. not just the same sensation with increasing intensity, it’s different sensations and each feels better than the last but also gets extremely intense like fully body, eyes rolling back etc and at that point i usually have to stop. while this is all very pleasurable and what i consider to be an orgasm i always feel like there is an untapped pleasure level that i am not reaching due to my sensitivity. so i wonder is there like a “top” level, most intense and feels the best, of orgasm and then you just naturally relax? almost like youre climbing over a hill and you made it over the peak and now you’re on the other side.

i realize this sounds like an alien is typing this their first time on earth but i hope someone can make sense of this. i’m in my late 20s and have been sexually active for years and im not complaining about what im experiencing so far, but i am extremely curious to hear what others have to say about this as i’ve never voiced it to anyone.

i’ve F always used primarily clitoral stimulation to orgasm, as penetration can be painful for me. i do enjoy it when i also am rubbing my clit as well but penetration alone rarely actually brings me to the point of orgasm. when i masturbate its usually with a vibrator or just manual.

i feel like when i am at the point of orgasm i enter and it almost feels like different “levels” of sensation. not just the same sensation with increasing intensity, it’s different sensations and each feels better than the last but also gets extremely intense like fully body, eyes rolling back etc and at that point i usually have to stop. while this is all very pleasurable and what i consider to be an orgasm i always feel like there is an untapped pleasure level that i am not reaching due to my sensitivity. so i wonder is there like a “top” level, most intense and feels the best, of orgasm and then you just naturally relax? almost like youre climbing over a hill and you made it over the peak and now you’re on the other side.

i realize this sounds like an alien is typing this their first time on earth but i hope someone can make sense of this. i’m in my late 20s and have been sexually active for years and im not complaining about what im experiencing so far, but i am extremely curious to hear what others have to say about this as i’ve never voiced it to anyone.