Tried to approach the topic of sex toys with my bf… /u/Average_weirdo000 Sex

So i have been with my bf for nearly two years everything seems to be going well we have had a few arguments but i think thats pretty normal in the span of nearly 2 years i am just as attracted to him as i was at the start… but recently i thought why not spice our sex life up so i suggested sex/ bondage toys and play and he just asked if i was attracted to him and said he likes normal sex… i was like yes i do too its just i thought why not spice things up he just didnt seem interested and it kinda hurt.. i was like sex in a relationship is important and he was like its not the most important thing tho… which kinda made me upset i just tried to end the convo and he said i can buy sex toys for myself if i want… but i was like yes but i want us both to potentially explore that side of things together…

So i have been with my bf for nearly two years everything seems to be going well we have had a few arguments but i think thats pretty normal in the span of nearly 2 years i am just as attracted to him as i was at the start… but recently i thought why not spice our sex life up so i suggested sex/ bondage toys and play and he just asked if i was attracted to him and said he likes normal sex… i was like yes i do too its just i thought why not spice things up he just didnt seem interested and it kinda hurt.. i was like sex in a relationship is important and he was like its not the most important thing tho… which kinda made me upset i just tried to end the convo and he said i can buy sex toys for myself if i want… but i was like yes but i want us both to potentially explore that side of things together…