Cis/hetero male asking for advice. Full disclosure, this is probably pretty gross to read and TMI for most people. I’ve been wondering for a few days if I should even ask this, or if there even is an actual solution. There might not be. Thank you for putting up with my question, and don’t read past this line if fluids gross you out.
I’m a monogamous (and introverted) type of person who doesn’t date much, just does long-term relationships or stays single, so I’ve generally been in situations where oral contraceptives were used. I’m currently seeing someone and we both prefer this over condoms. Things work pretty well for me down there, and I’m usually good to go for a few rounds. This has always been slightly awkward for me, because I’m not exactly leaving a few drops behind. There’s a lot of it, and it doesn’t all run out. This has been emphasized by everyone I’ve been with. It’s been compared to epoxy in a joking/not joking manner, sometimes in a text hours later by an embarrassed SO at work. It’s probably the worst lube imaginable, never mind the mess. Yes, it’s gross.
Neither of us are interested in using the other entrance. In the past I’ve found kinda awkward (or time consuming) workarounds, usually just waiting longer than either would like with some warmups for her to get things moving, but I’d like to know if there are any pro-level solutions for this. I might be asking to have my cake and eat it too (pulling out or mixing things up with oral would seem to be obvious solutions), but if there’s another way I’d love to hear it. We both really like our cake.
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r/sex Cis/hetero male asking for advice. Full disclosure, this is probably pretty gross to read and TMI for most people. I’ve been wondering for a few days if I should even ask this, or if there even is an actual solution. There might not be. Thank you for putting up with my question, and don’t read past this line if fluids gross you out. I’m a monogamous (and introverted) type of person who doesn’t date much, just does long-term relationships or stays single, so I’ve generally been in situations where oral contraceptives were used. I’m currently seeing someone and we both prefer this over condoms. Things work pretty well for me down there, and I’m usually good to go for a few rounds. This has always been slightly awkward for me, because I’m not exactly leaving a few drops behind. There’s a lot of it, and it doesn’t all run out. This has been emphasized by everyone I’ve been with. It’s been compared to epoxy in a joking/not joking manner, sometimes in a text hours later by an embarrassed SO at work. It’s probably the worst lube imaginable, never mind the mess. Yes, it’s gross. Neither of us are interested in using the other entrance. In the past I’ve found kinda awkward (or time consuming) workarounds, usually just waiting longer than either would like with some warmups for her to get things moving, but I’d like to know if there are any pro-level solutions for this. I might be asking to have my cake and eat it too (pulling out or mixing things up with oral would seem to be obvious solutions), but if there’s another way I’d love to hear it. We both really like our cake. submitted by /u/Consistent_Bug9854 [link] [comments]
Cis/hetero male asking for advice. Full disclosure, this is probably pretty gross to read and TMI for most people. I’ve been wondering for a few days if I should even ask this, or if there even is an actual solution. There might not be. Thank you for putting up with my question, and don’t read past this line if fluids gross you out.
I’m a monogamous (and introverted) type of person who doesn’t date much, just does long-term relationships or stays single, so I’ve generally been in situations where oral contraceptives were used. I’m currently seeing someone and we both prefer this over condoms. Things work pretty well for me down there, and I’m usually good to go for a few rounds. This has always been slightly awkward for me, because I’m not exactly leaving a few drops behind. There’s a lot of it, and it doesn’t all run out. This has been emphasized by everyone I’ve been with. It’s been compared to epoxy in a joking/not joking manner, sometimes in a text hours later by an embarrassed SO at work. It’s probably the worst lube imaginable, never mind the mess. Yes, it’s gross.
Neither of us are interested in using the other entrance. In the past I’ve found kinda awkward (or time consuming) workarounds, usually just waiting longer than either would like with some warmups for her to get things moving, but I’d like to know if there are any pro-level solutions for this. I might be asking to have my cake and eat it too (pulling out or mixing things up with oral would seem to be obvious solutions), but if there’s another way I’d love to hear it. We both really like our cake.
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