I (F23, pansexual) have been wanting to really expand my sexual experience especially on the aspects of kinks. There are some things I really want to explore and learn more about but I have a major issue: for some reason something in my brain says no to casual sex. I am super into committed relationships and only then will I have sex. I have nothing against casual sex and I would love to be able to, but my brain just says no. I don’t know where this comes from, but it’s still there and because of this I feel like I can’t do anything to explore the things I want to.
I’ve been thinking of going to kink conventions/meetings, but only to experience and learn, not to partake myself. I wonder if that’s appropriate and I would like to know people’s opinions on my situation. Thanks in advance.
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r/sex I (F23, pansexual) have been wanting to really expand my sexual experience especially on the aspects of kinks. There are some things I really want to explore and learn more about but I have a major issue: for some reason something in my brain says no to casual sex. I am super into committed relationships and only then will I have sex. I have nothing against casual sex and I would love to be able to, but my brain just says no. I don’t know where this comes from, but it’s still there and because of this I feel like I can’t do anything to explore the things I want to. I’ve been thinking of going to kink conventions/meetings, but only to experience and learn, not to partake myself. I wonder if that’s appropriate and I would like to know people’s opinions on my situation. Thanks in advance. submitted by /u/its_tea-gimme-gimme [link] [comments]
I (F23, pansexual) have been wanting to really expand my sexual experience especially on the aspects of kinks. There are some things I really want to explore and learn more about but I have a major issue: for some reason something in my brain says no to casual sex. I am super into committed relationships and only then will I have sex. I have nothing against casual sex and I would love to be able to, but my brain just says no. I don’t know where this comes from, but it’s still there and because of this I feel like I can’t do anything to explore the things I want to.
I’ve been thinking of going to kink conventions/meetings, but only to experience and learn, not to partake myself. I wonder if that’s appropriate and I would like to know people’s opinions on my situation. Thanks in advance.
submitted by /u/its_tea-gimme-gimme
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