How can I orgasm with my partner the way I orgasm when I’m alone? /u/Cheap_Moment9444 Sex

I enjoy sex with my partner a lot but I notice my orgasm feels entirely different than when I’m solo. I’ll describe the difference.

Solo: usually I focus on my clit, no penetration. I feel the build up and my orgasm is like a release of a euphoric wave that washes over my whole body, generally lasts 5-15 seconds. Usually immediately lose my sexual desire for a few hours after unless I’m ovulating or right before my period.

With a partner: there’s penetration and the “build up” feels different to, like the stroking just feels more and more pleasurable. There isn’t really a “release” or wave but more like the pleasure starts radiating in my body, sometimes I start shaking, sometimes my spine starts feeling tingly and I “black out”. It’s a very pleasurable feeling but distinctly very different.

Id say my solo orgasms are much stronger and that feeling of euphoria is much stronger. With a partner I’d say it feels like a constant build up and like a “leaking” of release rather than a wave washing everything out. It’s intense in a different way like overloading my body with sensation? I can’t say there’s a method/feeling I prefer because both are deeply enjoyable but there is a clear distinction to me as well. It would be nice if I could get that wave from my partner though.

I enjoy sex with my partner a lot but I notice my orgasm feels entirely different than when I’m solo. I’ll describe the difference.

Solo: usually I focus on my clit, no penetration. I feel the build up and my orgasm is like a release of a euphoric wave that washes over my whole body, generally lasts 5-15 seconds. Usually immediately lose my sexual desire for a few hours after unless I’m ovulating or right before my period.

With a partner: there’s penetration and the “build up” feels different to, like the stroking just feels more and more pleasurable. There isn’t really a “release” or wave but more like the pleasure starts radiating in my body, sometimes I start shaking, sometimes my spine starts feeling tingly and I “black out”. It’s a very pleasurable feeling but distinctly very different.

Id say my solo orgasms are much stronger and that feeling of euphoria is much stronger. With a partner I’d say it feels like a constant build up and like a “leaking” of release rather than a wave washing everything out. It’s intense in a different way like overloading my body with sensation? I can’t say there’s a method/feeling I prefer because both are deeply enjoyable but there is a clear distinction to me as well. It would be nice if I could get that wave from my partner though.