He told me from the moment penetration begins it’s a mental battle for him to not immediately orgasm so he has images/thoughts he cycles through that are either boring or ugly to distract his mind. I also notice during sex he avoids eye contact with me which hurts my feelings. Usually my eyes are closed or I’m watching the action but sometimes I want to look at him, and I’ll catch him staring but then once he catches my eyes, he’ll close his immediately or look straight up at the ceiling. At first I wondered if he just wasn’t attracted to me but after he told me about his thoughts I think it’s because he doesn’t want to cum too fast. We usually have sex for 30-45 minutes.
Honestly I wish he was more in the moment with me. It would be nice if he told me how I felt or how I looked or if he made eye contact. But I also really like how his sex is so I don’t want him to finish faster. I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. Can I ask him to be more present & give me more attention during sex or is that unrealistic and selfish?
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r/sex He told me from the moment penetration begins it’s a mental battle for him to not immediately orgasm so he has images/thoughts he cycles through that are either boring or ugly to distract his mind. I also notice during sex he avoids eye contact with me which hurts my feelings. Usually my eyes are closed or I’m watching the action but sometimes I want to look at him, and I’ll catch him staring but then once he catches my eyes, he’ll close his immediately or look straight up at the ceiling. At first I wondered if he just wasn’t attracted to me but after he told me about his thoughts I think it’s because he doesn’t want to cum too fast. We usually have sex for 30-45 minutes. Honestly I wish he was more in the moment with me. It would be nice if he told me how I felt or how I looked or if he made eye contact. But I also really like how his sex is so I don’t want him to finish faster. I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. Can I ask him to be more present & give me more attention during sex or is that unrealistic and selfish? submitted by /u/Cheap_Moment9444 [link] [comments]
He told me from the moment penetration begins it’s a mental battle for him to not immediately orgasm so he has images/thoughts he cycles through that are either boring or ugly to distract his mind. I also notice during sex he avoids eye contact with me which hurts my feelings. Usually my eyes are closed or I’m watching the action but sometimes I want to look at him, and I’ll catch him staring but then once he catches my eyes, he’ll close his immediately or look straight up at the ceiling. At first I wondered if he just wasn’t attracted to me but after he told me about his thoughts I think it’s because he doesn’t want to cum too fast. We usually have sex for 30-45 minutes.
Honestly I wish he was more in the moment with me. It would be nice if he told me how I felt or how I looked or if he made eye contact. But I also really like how his sex is so I don’t want him to finish faster. I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. Can I ask him to be more present & give me more attention during sex or is that unrealistic and selfish?
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