Sorry if this comes across as insensitive, but my girlfriend has expressed that she likes being praised in bed. However, it is difficult to complement her on these things in bed because she doesn’t do anything deserving of complements, if you know what I mean. She kind of “starfishes” in bed and lays there. This isn’t bad but its hard for me to tell her she’s doing a good job if she’s not doing anything. I usually say dirty talk like “take it like a good girl”, but she also wants things like “I love it when you…”, “That’s it baby, keep going”, “Yes, just like that, you’re so good at… “. But it doesn’t really fit if she’s not doing anything. And even if she is doing something worthy of praise (blowjob, cowgirl) its usually not that good, so I don’t really like telling her she’s doing a good job if she’s not.
What are examples of praise I can give her? Or should I let her know that she’s not the best in bed?
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r/sex Sorry if this comes across as insensitive, but my girlfriend has expressed that she likes being praised in bed. However, it is difficult to complement her on these things in bed because she doesn’t do anything deserving of complements, if you know what I mean. She kind of “starfishes” in bed and lays there. This isn’t bad but its hard for me to tell her she’s doing a good job if she’s not doing anything. I usually say dirty talk like “take it like a good girl”, but she also wants things like “I love it when you…”, “That’s it baby, keep going”, “Yes, just like that, you’re so good at… “. But it doesn’t really fit if she’s not doing anything. And even if she is doing something worthy of praise (blowjob, cowgirl) its usually not that good, so I don’t really like telling her she’s doing a good job if she’s not. What are examples of praise I can give her? Or should I let her know that she’s not the best in bed? submitted by /u/Cheap-Excuse-923 [link] [comments]
Sorry if this comes across as insensitive, but my girlfriend has expressed that she likes being praised in bed. However, it is difficult to complement her on these things in bed because she doesn’t do anything deserving of complements, if you know what I mean. She kind of “starfishes” in bed and lays there. This isn’t bad but its hard for me to tell her she’s doing a good job if she’s not doing anything. I usually say dirty talk like “take it like a good girl”, but she also wants things like “I love it when you…”, “That’s it baby, keep going”, “Yes, just like that, you’re so good at… “. But it doesn’t really fit if she’s not doing anything. And even if she is doing something worthy of praise (blowjob, cowgirl) its usually not that good, so I don’t really like telling her she’s doing a good job if she’s not.
What are examples of praise I can give her? Or should I let her know that she’s not the best in bed?
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