I (F18) have been a virgin before meeting my first bf. I expected my first time to hurt and it did, and also bled for a few days afterwards. The thing is though even when I had sex again like a month after my first time, I felt the exact same amount of pain. Most of the stinging pain was when he was initially entering me which I suspect ripped the outer part of my vagina a bit. But even internally, I don’t know how to describe it but I felt such a weird, not intense but continuous pain which kinda feels like my insides are being punched?? I thought the pain I was feeling was just a first time thing, but it did not get better the second or the third time either. I also kept bleeding and the outer part of my vagina hurt/bled even during the second and third. There is foreplay involved and I do get wet. It doesn’t really matter if he is going fast or slow, it hurts regardless. I don’t know much about guys’ sizes but I’m pretty sure he’s on the bigger side. I really like my bf and I want it to at least not be painful, but I don’t know if this kind of pain is natural/normal for the first few times or if it’s a me problem.
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r/sex I (F18) have been a virgin before meeting my first bf. I expected my first time to hurt and it did, and also bled for a few days afterwards. The thing is though even when I had sex again like a month after my first time, I felt the exact same amount of pain. Most of the stinging pain was when he was initially entering me which I suspect ripped the outer part of my vagina a bit. But even internally, I don’t know how to describe it but I felt such a weird, not intense but continuous pain which kinda feels like my insides are being punched?? I thought the pain I was feeling was just a first time thing, but it did not get better the second or the third time either. I also kept bleeding and the outer part of my vagina hurt/bled even during the second and third. There is foreplay involved and I do get wet. It doesn’t really matter if he is going fast or slow, it hurts regardless. I don’t know much about guys’ sizes but I’m pretty sure he’s on the bigger side. I really like my bf and I want it to at least not be painful, but I don’t know if this kind of pain is natural/normal for the first few times or if it’s a me problem. submitted by /u/stranqedesire [link] [comments]
I (F18) have been a virgin before meeting my first bf. I expected my first time to hurt and it did, and also bled for a few days afterwards. The thing is though even when I had sex again like a month after my first time, I felt the exact same amount of pain. Most of the stinging pain was when he was initially entering me which I suspect ripped the outer part of my vagina a bit. But even internally, I don’t know how to describe it but I felt such a weird, not intense but continuous pain which kinda feels like my insides are being punched?? I thought the pain I was feeling was just a first time thing, but it did not get better the second or the third time either. I also kept bleeding and the outer part of my vagina hurt/bled even during the second and third. There is foreplay involved and I do get wet. It doesn’t really matter if he is going fast or slow, it hurts regardless. I don’t know much about guys’ sizes but I’m pretty sure he’s on the bigger side. I really like my bf and I want it to at least not be painful, but I don’t know if this kind of pain is natural/normal for the first few times or if it’s a me problem.
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