For context I am 17. When I make out with my girlfriend, she likes to climb on top of me, and when she does she kind of presses her hips against me. She claims its not humping, but its pretty close and it has the same effect. Twice I have came from this, and the second time I was not able to hide it and she found out. The second time was kind of weird, as it happened almost instantly and I am still not entirely sure why. We have done it multiple times and normally it takes long enough to build that we are done before I reach that point, although it does kind of leave me with blue balls after.
Overall she was understanding, but pretty clear that this is not something she wants to happen again. She doesn’t seem to believe me when I say it is enough to make me cum, as she doesn’t think it is enough stimulation, but I know for a fact it is for me. I feel weird about directly admitting this to her, as it does not paint me in a great light.
I don’t want to cut out this part of kissing entirely, as it is something we both enjoy and we both worry about things getting boring without it. Is this just an issue with me having low stamina, and what can I do to prevent this from happening again?
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r/sex For context I am 17. When I make out with my girlfriend, she likes to climb on top of me, and when she does she kind of presses her hips against me. She claims its not humping, but its pretty close and it has the same effect. Twice I have came from this, and the second time I was not able to hide it and she found out. The second time was kind of weird, as it happened almost instantly and I am still not entirely sure why. We have done it multiple times and normally it takes long enough to build that we are done before I reach that point, although it does kind of leave me with blue balls after. Overall she was understanding, but pretty clear that this is not something she wants to happen again. She doesn’t seem to believe me when I say it is enough to make me cum, as she doesn’t think it is enough stimulation, but I know for a fact it is for me. I feel weird about directly admitting this to her, as it does not paint me in a great light. I don’t want to cut out this part of kissing entirely, as it is something we both enjoy and we both worry about things getting boring without it. Is this just an issue with me having low stamina, and what can I do to prevent this from happening again? submitted by /u/Proper_Ebb_9966 [link] [comments]
For context I am 17. When I make out with my girlfriend, she likes to climb on top of me, and when she does she kind of presses her hips against me. She claims its not humping, but its pretty close and it has the same effect. Twice I have came from this, and the second time I was not able to hide it and she found out. The second time was kind of weird, as it happened almost instantly and I am still not entirely sure why. We have done it multiple times and normally it takes long enough to build that we are done before I reach that point, although it does kind of leave me with blue balls after.
Overall she was understanding, but pretty clear that this is not something she wants to happen again. She doesn’t seem to believe me when I say it is enough to make me cum, as she doesn’t think it is enough stimulation, but I know for a fact it is for me. I feel weird about directly admitting this to her, as it does not paint me in a great light.
I don’t want to cut out this part of kissing entirely, as it is something we both enjoy and we both worry about things getting boring without it. Is this just an issue with me having low stamina, and what can I do to prevent this from happening again?
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