How do you like a woman to take control during sex? /u/Pheme1 Sex

How do you like a woman to take control during sex?

I (25F) recently started seeing a guy (24M) and things are getting more serious. We’re becoming comfortable sharing our likes and dislikes when it comes to sex. From the beginning, he’s taken on a very dominant role, which naturally led me to lean more submissive.

Last night, he told me he wishes I would be more dominant sometimes and take the lead. The thing is, I’m not really sure how to do that. For example, when I’m on top, he sometimes seems frustrated that I can’t go as fast as he would like.

I do try to be engaged – I go down on him almost every time, move my hips to match his rhythm when he’s on top or we’re doing doggy so I wouldn’t say I’m a “dead fish”. Our positions might be bit repetitive tho. I also moan, praise, and dirty talk, but I’m not very comfortable with giving direct commands.

Do you have any tips or suggestions on how I can improve and take the lead?

How do you like a woman to take control during sex?

I (25F) recently started seeing a guy (24M) and things are getting more serious. We’re becoming comfortable sharing our likes and dislikes when it comes to sex. From the beginning, he’s taken on a very dominant role, which naturally led me to lean more submissive.

Last night, he told me he wishes I would be more dominant sometimes and take the lead. The thing is, I’m not really sure how to do that. For example, when I’m on top, he sometimes seems frustrated that I can’t go as fast as he would like.

I do try to be engaged – I go down on him almost every time, move my hips to match his rhythm when he’s on top or we’re doing doggy so I wouldn’t say I’m a “dead fish”. Our positions might be bit repetitive tho. I also moan, praise, and dirty talk, but I’m not very comfortable with giving direct commands.

Do you have any tips or suggestions on how I can improve and take the lead?