My Girlfriend and I have struggled in our sex life. I have had lots of experience and sexual partners. She is younger than me and has limited experience. But our problem is not her experience, she struggles with accepting her body. She has very large labia and she feels as if they make her unattractive. As I’ve mentioned, I am older than her. I’ve had girlfriends and partners who have had innies and outies. I’ve always found outies more attractive. I’ve told her that I prefer how she looks down there and I give her oral daily, I tell her that she has the prettiest labia I’ve ever seen. She will feel good while we are in the moment, but afterwards she always reverts back to self loathing over her labia size. She said hers are abnormally large, in fairness they are larger than I’ve experienced before, but nonetheless I love them.
Is there anyone here with experience in this insecurity? It would be great to see her love herself and not be so down about how her labia looks. She constantly compares herself to her friends, I think she is way more beautiful from head to toe. It doesn’t seem to inhibit her physically. She said they are sensitive and she likes how I include them in oral. Do I just need to be persistent in my admiration? I want to figure this out.
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r/sex My Girlfriend and I have struggled in our sex life. I have had lots of experience and sexual partners. She is younger than me and has limited experience. But our problem is not her experience, she struggles with accepting her body. She has very large labia and she feels as if they make her unattractive. As I’ve mentioned, I am older than her. I’ve had girlfriends and partners who have had innies and outies. I’ve always found outies more attractive. I’ve told her that I prefer how she looks down there and I give her oral daily, I tell her that she has the prettiest labia I’ve ever seen. She will feel good while we are in the moment, but afterwards she always reverts back to self loathing over her labia size. She said hers are abnormally large, in fairness they are larger than I’ve experienced before, but nonetheless I love them. Is there anyone here with experience in this insecurity? It would be great to see her love herself and not be so down about how her labia looks. She constantly compares herself to her friends, I think she is way more beautiful from head to toe. It doesn’t seem to inhibit her physically. She said they are sensitive and she likes how I include them in oral. Do I just need to be persistent in my admiration? I want to figure this out. submitted by /u/JacksonS062 [link] [comments]
My Girlfriend and I have struggled in our sex life. I have had lots of experience and sexual partners. She is younger than me and has limited experience. But our problem is not her experience, she struggles with accepting her body. She has very large labia and she feels as if they make her unattractive. As I’ve mentioned, I am older than her. I’ve had girlfriends and partners who have had innies and outies. I’ve always found outies more attractive. I’ve told her that I prefer how she looks down there and I give her oral daily, I tell her that she has the prettiest labia I’ve ever seen. She will feel good while we are in the moment, but afterwards she always reverts back to self loathing over her labia size. She said hers are abnormally large, in fairness they are larger than I’ve experienced before, but nonetheless I love them.
Is there anyone here with experience in this insecurity? It would be great to see her love herself and not be so down about how her labia looks. She constantly compares herself to her friends, I think she is way more beautiful from head to toe. It doesn’t seem to inhibit her physically. She said they are sensitive and she likes how I include them in oral. Do I just need to be persistent in my admiration? I want to figure this out.
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