Dick pic’d me after saying he’s not a sexual being /u/Gold_Temporary_4243 Sex

I’ll be honest, I wanted this guy’s attention. But that’s like me saying I was asking for it. I wasn’t.

He’s on a podcast that I was turning to for laughs and escape. I was a new listener. I thought he was hot and funny so I struck up an online chat with him. He was receptive and cool. I tried flirting a little. He rebuffed saying he doesn’t want to make things weird with listeners. I said I respected that.

But as time passed, he one night asks why I wasnt hitting on him. I mentioned his boundaries. I said well how about this, flirting is harmless, right? Yes, he says. Then he goes straight from flirting to making a big joke out of sending a pixelated dick pic. Since everything is comedy with him, I went along. But that must have been his entry into sending the unpixelated version which he did with my consent. He had a nice dick. I told him so. But I didn’t know where this was going. Claimed the only girl to have seen his dick in years! Ha!

I so wanted to make this guy like me like a pathetic school girl that I talked dirty to him. I sent NO photos of myself. I wouldn’t have. Didn’t seem to matter to him anyway.

Now I feel stupid and sad. My feelings are hurt. This was the guy who said sex isn’t a priority for him. I wanted him to want to get to know me.

Also hasn’t had a gf in years, and that he has no idea how to sex chat. How can you go from those sentiments straight to dick pic?

So here’s the dilemma, I miss the podcast but I don’t want to look at him because I like him and I’m mad at him all the same (it’s on YouTube). I want to explain to him what he did was kind of fucked up. Will it make a difference? Should I even bother? Should I forget the whole podcast and just forget this guy? There’s a part of me that still likes him and wants his attention.

Please help! And please don’t make me feel foolish. I’ve had quite enough of that in my life. Was this SCUMBAG behavior? I think saying you’re not one thing and then doing another is scumbag. You tell me.

I’ll be honest, I wanted this guy’s attention. But that’s like me saying I was asking for it. I wasn’t.

He’s on a podcast that I was turning to for laughs and escape. I was a new listener. I thought he was hot and funny so I struck up an online chat with him. He was receptive and cool. I tried flirting a little. He rebuffed saying he doesn’t want to make things weird with listeners. I said I respected that.

But as time passed, he one night asks why I wasnt hitting on him. I mentioned his boundaries. I said well how about this, flirting is harmless, right? Yes, he says. Then he goes straight from flirting to making a big joke out of sending a pixelated dick pic. Since everything is comedy with him, I went along. But that must have been his entry into sending the unpixelated version which he did with my consent. He had a nice dick. I told him so. But I didn’t know where this was going. Claimed the only girl to have seen his dick in years! Ha!

I so wanted to make this guy like me like a pathetic school girl that I talked dirty to him. I sent NO photos of myself. I wouldn’t have. Didn’t seem to matter to him anyway.

Now I feel stupid and sad. My feelings are hurt. This was the guy who said sex isn’t a priority for him. I wanted him to want to get to know me.

Also hasn’t had a gf in years, and that he has no idea how to sex chat. How can you go from those sentiments straight to dick pic?

So here’s the dilemma, I miss the podcast but I don’t want to look at him because I like him and I’m mad at him all the same (it’s on YouTube). I want to explain to him what he did was kind of fucked up. Will it make a difference? Should I even bother? Should I forget the whole podcast and just forget this guy? There’s a part of me that still likes him and wants his attention.

Please help! And please don’t make me feel foolish. I’ve had quite enough of that in my life. Was this SCUMBAG behavior? I think saying you’re not one thing and then doing another is scumbag. You tell me.