Problem: I cant give my partner the pleasure that she deserves to feel.
Context: Hi, I’m seeking for advice, and I really need it right now. I had a conversation with my partner about our sexual relationship, and it led to her thinking that I’m not sexually attracted to her. But I really am, and it hurts to hear that she feel that way, although I know it’s probably hurting her more. We’ve been together for almost three years.
I admit that I’m not great at sexual activities and tend to be more passive in bed. I can do things like touching, kissing, and other forms of affection, but not the eating thing. I’ve tried searching for tutorials to learn more about it and have been practicing with my mouth regularly, but I still feel unsure.
And now, I can’t help but think that maybe she’ll look for someone else who’ll make her feel attracted in every aspect. She taught me three times already, but I still can’t get it right, even though I really want to. I just can’t seem to understand it.
I know it’s my responsibility, so I’m open to any advice you have. Thank you!
Previous attempts: I already talked to her but she doesn’t want to talk about it and I understand her for that.
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r/sex Problem: I cant give my partner the pleasure that she deserves to feel. Context: Hi, I’m seeking for advice, and I really need it right now. I had a conversation with my partner about our sexual relationship, and it led to her thinking that I’m not sexually attracted to her. But I really am, and it hurts to hear that she feel that way, although I know it’s probably hurting her more. We’ve been together for almost three years. I admit that I’m not great at sexual activities and tend to be more passive in bed. I can do things like touching, kissing, and other forms of affection, but not the eating thing. I’ve tried searching for tutorials to learn more about it and have been practicing with my mouth regularly, but I still feel unsure. And now, I can’t help but think that maybe she’ll look for someone else who’ll make her feel attracted in every aspect. She taught me three times already, but I still can’t get it right, even though I really want to. I just can’t seem to understand it. I know it’s my responsibility, so I’m open to any advice you have. Thank you! Previous attempts: I already talked to her but she doesn’t want to talk about it and I understand her for that. submitted by /u/halimuyak_ [link] [comments]
Problem: I cant give my partner the pleasure that she deserves to feel.
Context: Hi, I’m seeking for advice, and I really need it right now. I had a conversation with my partner about our sexual relationship, and it led to her thinking that I’m not sexually attracted to her. But I really am, and it hurts to hear that she feel that way, although I know it’s probably hurting her more. We’ve been together for almost three years.
I admit that I’m not great at sexual activities and tend to be more passive in bed. I can do things like touching, kissing, and other forms of affection, but not the eating thing. I’ve tried searching for tutorials to learn more about it and have been practicing with my mouth regularly, but I still feel unsure.
And now, I can’t help but think that maybe she’ll look for someone else who’ll make her feel attracted in every aspect. She taught me three times already, but I still can’t get it right, even though I really want to. I just can’t seem to understand it.
I know it’s my responsibility, so I’m open to any advice you have. Thank you!
Previous attempts: I already talked to her but she doesn’t want to talk about it and I understand her for that.
submitted by /u/halimuyak_
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