My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 4 months, talking for 7 months. He’s an amazing man, waited for me to be ready before taking my virginity, was slow and gentle and always is. He’s very calculating when it comes to making moves sexually, if that makes sense? Like he never asked for sex in the beginning, even though he wanted it, and waited for me to ask him first. Or like, he doesn’t ask for head and just waits till I initiate it and I assume it’s for my comfort. We’ve also just gotten more sexually active because things went very slow in the beginning (me being a nervous virgin) Now present time.. and he still hasn’t given me head nor do I give it to him. Whenever I do, it’s me asking if he wants to and it usually turns into us just having sex. And all we do is just have sex. In all of our relationship he has never given me head and has only fingered me once, but used to tell me how good he was with past relationships and how he enjoys giving it, but we still haven’t and it’d be my first time ever so I really want to. And yes, I know, the obvious solution is asking him to give me head, but that’s so unsexy + how do you even ask that in a smooth not embarrassing way? I think I want the most unrealistic thing to happen which is him just randomly going down on me, but I know him, and he’ll want some type of consent first. PLUS, it’d be nice if we had some foreplay before sex as well.. but I’m so new to these things I’m not sure where to start or what to ask. So what should I do?
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r/sex My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 4 months, talking for 7 months. He’s an amazing man, waited for me to be ready before taking my virginity, was slow and gentle and always is. He’s very calculating when it comes to making moves sexually, if that makes sense? Like he never asked for sex in the beginning, even though he wanted it, and waited for me to ask him first. Or like, he doesn’t ask for head and just waits till I initiate it and I assume it’s for my comfort. We’ve also just gotten more sexually active because things went very slow in the beginning (me being a nervous virgin) Now present time.. and he still hasn’t given me head nor do I give it to him. Whenever I do, it’s me asking if he wants to and it usually turns into us just having sex. And all we do is just have sex. In all of our relationship he has never given me head and has only fingered me once, but used to tell me how good he was with past relationships and how he enjoys giving it, but we still haven’t and it’d be my first time ever so I really want to. And yes, I know, the obvious solution is asking him to give me head, but that’s so unsexy + how do you even ask that in a smooth not embarrassing way? I think I want the most unrealistic thing to happen which is him just randomly going down on me, but I know him, and he’ll want some type of consent first. PLUS, it’d be nice if we had some foreplay before sex as well.. but I’m so new to these things I’m not sure where to start or what to ask. So what should I do? submitted by /u/rememberthisuserLadi [link] [comments]
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 4 months, talking for 7 months. He’s an amazing man, waited for me to be ready before taking my virginity, was slow and gentle and always is. He’s very calculating when it comes to making moves sexually, if that makes sense? Like he never asked for sex in the beginning, even though he wanted it, and waited for me to ask him first. Or like, he doesn’t ask for head and just waits till I initiate it and I assume it’s for my comfort. We’ve also just gotten more sexually active because things went very slow in the beginning (me being a nervous virgin) Now present time.. and he still hasn’t given me head nor do I give it to him. Whenever I do, it’s me asking if he wants to and it usually turns into us just having sex. And all we do is just have sex. In all of our relationship he has never given me head and has only fingered me once, but used to tell me how good he was with past relationships and how he enjoys giving it, but we still haven’t and it’d be my first time ever so I really want to. And yes, I know, the obvious solution is asking him to give me head, but that’s so unsexy + how do you even ask that in a smooth not embarrassing way? I think I want the most unrealistic thing to happen which is him just randomly going down on me, but I know him, and he’ll want some type of consent first. PLUS, it’d be nice if we had some foreplay before sex as well.. but I’m so new to these things I’m not sure where to start or what to ask. So what should I do?
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