So for context we met online, and we started living together 5 months ago.
When we were still long distance, he would always be horny and either ask for nudes or video call me to masturbate with me. At least once everyday, sometimes two. I didn’t mind, I actually liked it because I have a pretty high libido. I had never sent nudes/done anything sexual with anyone before, but he had 3 gfs before me and had talked online to many girls.
Our relationship wasn’t just that, dw. We would talk, sleep on call, play video games etc.
When he came to live with me (800km away from his home), we had sex everyday, sometimes twice a day. He would get horny when he saw me showering, when I was cooking.. and he was my first. So I was always excited as well, and ready for him to show me new things.
Now we’ve been together 5 months and he recently told me that his age and his experience are the reason why he doesn’t really initiate sex as often anymore. He’s a very handsome man and I know women look at him when we’re out. He is society’s standard of a masculine man (tall, muscular, tattoos, funny, charismatic..) I’m not. I’m short chubby and I’ve always been the weird girl at school.
Even today, he talks about sex quite a lot and when you know him you know that he loves it.
I am new to all of this so I constantly want him. Yesterday morning, I tried to initiate but he got up because he had to go to work. (Before, he would get me almost late for school to have sex in the morning). In the evening when were watching a show, I tried to initiate again by telling him I was horny but he told me he was tired and it was too late. He then told me that we can “only have sex between 10am and 11pm”. Wtf. I mean, I recently started my sexual life and I have needs pretty often.
Sometimes when we had some arguments, I would notice he was stressed/mad because we wouldn’t have sex for like a week or so. When he would tell me about his ex, he said that before they broke up, he stopped having sex with her for 4 months, even though she wanted to.
Does he not want me specifically ? I mean I have been gaining a little weight and he’s been telling me about it so maybe this is why.
Or maybe I’m just not good at it. I mean, I am a little bit insecure and I’m definitely not sexy. I don’t often take initiatives either. I really am a sub so I like when he takes the lead, but I know he likes it when I do things myself. He never complained about my performance. He usually likes it, but I know I’m not that good. He told me that he and his friends always thought he could be a P-star. Tbh, I agree. He does things very well and tries many positions, many stuff other than piv (even if that’s mostly it and I don’t mind). Im not at that level. I like personal, romantic, intimate sex. I don’t like sex more when it’s p-website worthy, but only when it feels good.
It makes me sad because I know that with his past girlfriends, he was very active. And he was with me too, in the beginning.
So my question is: is it wrong for me to want to have sex often ? Do I make sex more important than it should be ?
TL;DR: Im new to sex and constantly want it but my experienced boyfriend seems bored of it.
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r/sex So for context we met online, and we started living together 5 months ago. When we were still long distance, he would always be horny and either ask for nudes or video call me to masturbate with me. At least once everyday, sometimes two. I didn’t mind, I actually liked it because I have a pretty high libido. I had never sent nudes/done anything sexual with anyone before, but he had 3 gfs before me and had talked online to many girls. Our relationship wasn’t just that, dw. We would talk, sleep on call, play video games etc. When he came to live with me (800km away from his home), we had sex everyday, sometimes twice a day. He would get horny when he saw me showering, when I was cooking.. and he was my first. So I was always excited as well, and ready for him to show me new things. Now we’ve been together 5 months and he recently told me that his age and his experience are the reason why he doesn’t really initiate sex as often anymore. He’s a very handsome man and I know women look at him when we’re out. He is society’s standard of a masculine man (tall, muscular, tattoos, funny, charismatic..) I’m not. I’m short chubby and I’ve always been the weird girl at school. Even today, he talks about sex quite a lot and when you know him you know that he loves it. I am new to all of this so I constantly want him. Yesterday morning, I tried to initiate but he got up because he had to go to work. (Before, he would get me almost late for school to have sex in the morning). In the evening when were watching a show, I tried to initiate again by telling him I was horny but he told me he was tired and it was too late. He then told me that we can “only have sex between 10am and 11pm”. Wtf. I mean, I recently started my sexual life and I have needs pretty often. Sometimes when we had some arguments, I would notice he was stressed/mad because we wouldn’t have sex for like a week or so. When he would tell me about his ex, he said that before they broke up, he stopped having sex with her for 4 months, even though she wanted to. Does he not want me specifically ? I mean I have been gaining a little weight and he’s been telling me about it so maybe this is why. Or maybe I’m just not good at it. I mean, I am a little bit insecure and I’m definitely not sexy. I don’t often take initiatives either. I really am a sub so I like when he takes the lead, but I know he likes it when I do things myself. He never complained about my performance. He usually likes it, but I know I’m not that good. He told me that he and his friends always thought he could be a P-star. Tbh, I agree. He does things very well and tries many positions, many stuff other than piv (even if that’s mostly it and I don’t mind). Im not at that level. I like personal, romantic, intimate sex. I don’t like sex more when it’s p-website worthy, but only when it feels good. It makes me sad because I know that with his past girlfriends, he was very active. And he was with me too, in the beginning. So my question is: is it wrong for me to want to have sex often ? Do I make sex more important than it should be ? TL;DR: Im new to sex and constantly want it but my experienced boyfriend seems bored of it. submitted by /u/Adventurous_Cup2170 [link] [comments]
So for context we met online, and we started living together 5 months ago.
When we were still long distance, he would always be horny and either ask for nudes or video call me to masturbate with me. At least once everyday, sometimes two. I didn’t mind, I actually liked it because I have a pretty high libido. I had never sent nudes/done anything sexual with anyone before, but he had 3 gfs before me and had talked online to many girls.
Our relationship wasn’t just that, dw. We would talk, sleep on call, play video games etc.
When he came to live with me (800km away from his home), we had sex everyday, sometimes twice a day. He would get horny when he saw me showering, when I was cooking.. and he was my first. So I was always excited as well, and ready for him to show me new things.
Now we’ve been together 5 months and he recently told me that his age and his experience are the reason why he doesn’t really initiate sex as often anymore. He’s a very handsome man and I know women look at him when we’re out. He is society’s standard of a masculine man (tall, muscular, tattoos, funny, charismatic..) I’m not. I’m short chubby and I’ve always been the weird girl at school.
Even today, he talks about sex quite a lot and when you know him you know that he loves it.
I am new to all of this so I constantly want him. Yesterday morning, I tried to initiate but he got up because he had to go to work. (Before, he would get me almost late for school to have sex in the morning). In the evening when were watching a show, I tried to initiate again by telling him I was horny but he told me he was tired and it was too late. He then told me that we can “only have sex between 10am and 11pm”. Wtf. I mean, I recently started my sexual life and I have needs pretty often.
Sometimes when we had some arguments, I would notice he was stressed/mad because we wouldn’t have sex for like a week or so. When he would tell me about his ex, he said that before they broke up, he stopped having sex with her for 4 months, even though she wanted to.
Does he not want me specifically ? I mean I have been gaining a little weight and he’s been telling me about it so maybe this is why.
Or maybe I’m just not good at it. I mean, I am a little bit insecure and I’m definitely not sexy. I don’t often take initiatives either. I really am a sub so I like when he takes the lead, but I know he likes it when I do things myself. He never complained about my performance. He usually likes it, but I know I’m not that good. He told me that he and his friends always thought he could be a P-star. Tbh, I agree. He does things very well and tries many positions, many stuff other than piv (even if that’s mostly it and I don’t mind). Im not at that level. I like personal, romantic, intimate sex. I don’t like sex more when it’s p-website worthy, but only when it feels good.
It makes me sad because I know that with his past girlfriends, he was very active. And he was with me too, in the beginning.
So my question is: is it wrong for me to want to have sex often ? Do I make sex more important than it should be ?
TL;DR: Im new to sex and constantly want it but my experienced boyfriend seems bored of it.
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