I can’t get out of my head and stop feeling awkward with my boyfriend /u/Low_Tip_8319 Sex

I (19f) and my boyfriend (19m) have been together for a little over a year now. We’ve had some really good sex, he knows what gets me going physically and being with him is the only time I’ve ever came with a partner. The problem is the mental aspect. I am so nervous when it comes to sex and I can’t get out of my head before or during it. It makes things so much more unsexy! It’s hard for me to communicate my desires, the thought of dirty talk makes me panic, and I always end up talking about sex with the most mechanical tone. My boyfriend isn’t quite as bad as me but he’s also not the most sexually liberated person ever, and we’re both very anxious in general. I just want to be able to get out of my head, tell him what I want, and act sexy! I trust him, I know he wouldn’t judge me for it, but it just scares me so much. Help!

I (19f) and my boyfriend (19m) have been together for a little over a year now. We’ve had some really good sex, he knows what gets me going physically and being with him is the only time I’ve ever came with a partner. The problem is the mental aspect. I am so nervous when it comes to sex and I can’t get out of my head before or during it. It makes things so much more unsexy! It’s hard for me to communicate my desires, the thought of dirty talk makes me panic, and I always end up talking about sex with the most mechanical tone. My boyfriend isn’t quite as bad as me but he’s also not the most sexually liberated person ever, and we’re both very anxious in general. I just want to be able to get out of my head, tell him what I want, and act sexy! I trust him, I know he wouldn’t judge me for it, but it just scares me so much. Help!