New norms in dating? /u/Vivid-Pain2224 No such thing as stupid questions

Please dont hate. I’m not trying to shame just trying to gain understanding. I am very slightly on the spectrum so sometimes other people’s behavior can be a mystery for me. I (M34) have been in two long term relationships ever and have been single now and not dating at all for 3 years. It seems from my learning of the dating scene from in person and on here that casual sex and dating are very common now? And most women sleep with at least a few (or more) new partners for every year they are single. So the women I might be dating now in my 30s, that’s potentially a very high “body count” it just seems like a lot socially (running into any of her previous partners) medically, emotionally, etc. Plus my own “body count” is literally 2. Again, please don’t just get mad and obliterate this post, I’d appreciate some insight.

Please dont hate. I’m not trying to shame just trying to gain understanding. I am very slightly on the spectrum so sometimes other people’s behavior can be a mystery for me. I (M34) have been in two long term relationships ever and have been single now and not dating at all for 3 years. It seems from my learning of the dating scene from in person and on here that casual sex and dating are very common now? And most women sleep with at least a few (or more) new partners for every year they are single. So the women I might be dating now in my 30s, that’s potentially a very high “body count” it just seems like a lot socially (running into any of her previous partners) medically, emotionally, etc. Plus my own “body count” is literally 2. Again, please don’t just get mad and obliterate this post, I’d appreciate some insight.