My husband won’t let me finish while receiving oral /u/PreparationProud4823 Sex

So my Husband (30 M) and I (30 F) have been together for 5 years. When we first started dating he ate me out all the time and was determined to get me to finish. Personally I take a while to finish when I’m getting eaten out, but I’m also not a porn star and it’s not realistic to expect any woman to finish after 2 minutes. I’ve especially been self conscious of him going down on me because two years ago when he was eating me out became frustrated and said “I just don’t understand why you take so long. Other girls I’ve been with have never taken this long”. So since then I don’t really let him go down on me. I am a plus size girl and I’ve always been self conscious of men going down on me and hearing that from my partner even to this day hurts me. We’ve talked about it multiple times and he has apologized but he just doesn’t get it. What also makes me angry is he’s always telling his friends about how much pussy he eats and then I will jokingly tell them he doesn’t and he gets embarrassed but plays it off. I know that’s not a nice thing to do in a partnership but it just frustrates me. I would also like to add that we have sex a lot and it’s usually just quickies after dinner and we go an about what we want to do for the evening before bed. So occasionally we get in moods where we want to go a little longer. Tonight was one of those nights and I wanted to sit on his face. He keeps asking me to and I was finally confident to do it. About 3 minutes in I went to adjust the way I was sitting and he moved away completely because he was done essentially. I told him I wanted to come on his face and he said that position just hurts his nose piercing too much. He could tell I was upset and that he felt like he ruined the moment. We still had sex but I am not satisfied with only having an orgasm through penetration. I’ve asked in the past if he’ll finger me or use my vibrator but I can tell he gets bored. I really enjoy oral sex both giving and receiving and he has been really different from other men I’ve been with regarding that part of sex. I really love my husband and I’ve always enjoyed our sex life but not feeling fully satisfied after sex is really starting to get under my skin and I don’t know how to approach it. My husband is a very sensitive man and I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make him think he is to blame for anything. Any input on this would be appreciated.

So my Husband (30 M) and I (30 F) have been together for 5 years. When we first started dating he ate me out all the time and was determined to get me to finish. Personally I take a while to finish when I’m getting eaten out, but I’m also not a porn star and it’s not realistic to expect any woman to finish after 2 minutes. I’ve especially been self conscious of him going down on me because two years ago when he was eating me out became frustrated and said “I just don’t understand why you take so long. Other girls I’ve been with have never taken this long”. So since then I don’t really let him go down on me. I am a plus size girl and I’ve always been self conscious of men going down on me and hearing that from my partner even to this day hurts me. We’ve talked about it multiple times and he has apologized but he just doesn’t get it. What also makes me angry is he’s always telling his friends about how much pussy he eats and then I will jokingly tell them he doesn’t and he gets embarrassed but plays it off. I know that’s not a nice thing to do in a partnership but it just frustrates me. I would also like to add that we have sex a lot and it’s usually just quickies after dinner and we go an about what we want to do for the evening before bed. So occasionally we get in moods where we want to go a little longer. Tonight was one of those nights and I wanted to sit on his face. He keeps asking me to and I was finally confident to do it. About 3 minutes in I went to adjust the way I was sitting and he moved away completely because he was done essentially. I told him I wanted to come on his face and he said that position just hurts his nose piercing too much. He could tell I was upset and that he felt like he ruined the moment. We still had sex but I am not satisfied with only having an orgasm through penetration. I’ve asked in the past if he’ll finger me or use my vibrator but I can tell he gets bored. I really enjoy oral sex both giving and receiving and he has been really different from other men I’ve been with regarding that part of sex. I really love my husband and I’ve always enjoyed our sex life but not feeling fully satisfied after sex is really starting to get under my skin and I don’t know how to approach it. My husband is a very sensitive man and I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make him think he is to blame for anything. Any input on this would be appreciated.