My partner and I have gone through a lot of change in the last 18 months, we’ve had a baby and our little one is now 14 months. We attended some relationship counselling last week and had a good check in, kind of like a service on the relationship with our counsellor. It’s clear we are transitioning into new versions of ourselves and I feel the commitment is still strong but it’s been hard to find time and capacity to be intimate. We agree we want to make the effort and have agreed to make dedicated time to be intimate together. I’ve also started not looking at pornography so I can be better connected to my partner, it really makes me more attentive and I usually show up a lot more for her when I’m in this mode. She loves compliments and attention so I’m going to be more attentive to that need.
We had a check in this week and she’s shared that she only has one fantasy, or one she is prepared to share and it’s turned me on massively. She wants me to book a hotel room and for us to travel together, I’ll go to the bar and get a drink whilst she goes to the hotel room. She will then blindfold herself and I’ll go into the room and we will not communicate verbally and then I’ll start to have sex with her.
I really like this idea, my libido at the moment is sky high and I’m especially turned on by my partners fantasy. It’s really sexy to know she has these thoughts and wishes. I love hotel sex too.
What do people think of this? Any tips on how to maximise and support her with this fantasy. She asked me if she would be wearing lingerie or not, I have a huge lingerie fetsh and I get massively turned on by her in lingerie.
But should she choose her outfit as it’s her fantasy? I feel like the fantasy has a dominant feel to it for me, but I want her to get the best from it as she’s been really vulnerable talking about her needs.
Any thoughts or tips?
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r/sex My partner and I have gone through a lot of change in the last 18 months, we’ve had a baby and our little one is now 14 months. We attended some relationship counselling last week and had a good check in, kind of like a service on the relationship with our counsellor. It’s clear we are transitioning into new versions of ourselves and I feel the commitment is still strong but it’s been hard to find time and capacity to be intimate. We agree we want to make the effort and have agreed to make dedicated time to be intimate together. I’ve also started not looking at pornography so I can be better connected to my partner, it really makes me more attentive and I usually show up a lot more for her when I’m in this mode. She loves compliments and attention so I’m going to be more attentive to that need. We had a check in this week and she’s shared that she only has one fantasy, or one she is prepared to share and it’s turned me on massively. She wants me to book a hotel room and for us to travel together, I’ll go to the bar and get a drink whilst she goes to the hotel room. She will then blindfold herself and I’ll go into the room and we will not communicate verbally and then I’ll start to have sex with her. I really like this idea, my libido at the moment is sky high and I’m especially turned on by my partners fantasy. It’s really sexy to know she has these thoughts and wishes. I love hotel sex too. What do people think of this? Any tips on how to maximise and support her with this fantasy. She asked me if she would be wearing lingerie or not, I have a huge lingerie fetsh and I get massively turned on by her in lingerie. But should she choose her outfit as it’s her fantasy? I feel like the fantasy has a dominant feel to it for me, but I want her to get the best from it as she’s been really vulnerable talking about her needs. Any thoughts or tips? submitted by /u/boogiefunderland [link] [comments]
My partner and I have gone through a lot of change in the last 18 months, we’ve had a baby and our little one is now 14 months. We attended some relationship counselling last week and had a good check in, kind of like a service on the relationship with our counsellor. It’s clear we are transitioning into new versions of ourselves and I feel the commitment is still strong but it’s been hard to find time and capacity to be intimate. We agree we want to make the effort and have agreed to make dedicated time to be intimate together. I’ve also started not looking at pornography so I can be better connected to my partner, it really makes me more attentive and I usually show up a lot more for her when I’m in this mode. She loves compliments and attention so I’m going to be more attentive to that need.
We had a check in this week and she’s shared that she only has one fantasy, or one she is prepared to share and it’s turned me on massively. She wants me to book a hotel room and for us to travel together, I’ll go to the bar and get a drink whilst she goes to the hotel room. She will then blindfold herself and I’ll go into the room and we will not communicate verbally and then I’ll start to have sex with her.
I really like this idea, my libido at the moment is sky high and I’m especially turned on by my partners fantasy. It’s really sexy to know she has these thoughts and wishes. I love hotel sex too.
What do people think of this? Any tips on how to maximise and support her with this fantasy. She asked me if she would be wearing lingerie or not, I have a huge lingerie fetsh and I get massively turned on by her in lingerie.
But should she choose her outfit as it’s her fantasy? I feel like the fantasy has a dominant feel to it for me, but I want her to get the best from it as she’s been really vulnerable talking about her needs.
Any thoughts or tips?
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