When my boyfriend and I (both in our early twenties) are cuddling and kissing and moving towards having sex I feel more of an emotional desire to have him inside me than physical horniness. Like I just want us to bear hug and hold his penis inside me and move in and out minimally and slowly, as I’m pretty impartial to the physical sensation, but find it really emotionally overwhelming yet pleasurable. It feels like emotional pleasure rather than a physical feeling.
All I can think about during sex is how much I really love him which is becoming a problem because I’m losing desire in sexual acts that I used to enjoy, like giving him head or having sex doggystyle, because I just want to be pressed up against him and in a more.. tender way? I don’t know how to explain it. I love to touch and stroke and just hold his penis, but I don’t really like to spit on it and lick/suck it anymore because it feels kind of obscene, and I feel disconnected from him when I do it.
My boyfriend has noticed that theres been a change in my sex drive and what I’m into doing, and I don’t know how to explain to him that this is how I’m feeling because I don’t want him to feel hurt and think that I don’t want to pleasure him or have proper sex with him, and I want his sexual needs to be fulfilled. I also don’t really know why this change has happened. I just want us to cuddle and rub against each other and touch each other and kiss because I feel so happy and satisfied and connected like that, but I know that’s not the makings of a satisfying sex life for an adult man.
Is there a way that we can have sex that fulfils both our needs?
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r/sex When my boyfriend and I (both in our early twenties) are cuddling and kissing and moving towards having sex I feel more of an emotional desire to have him inside me than physical horniness. Like I just want us to bear hug and hold his penis inside me and move in and out minimally and slowly, as I’m pretty impartial to the physical sensation, but find it really emotionally overwhelming yet pleasurable. It feels like emotional pleasure rather than a physical feeling. All I can think about during sex is how much I really love him which is becoming a problem because I’m losing desire in sexual acts that I used to enjoy, like giving him head or having sex doggystyle, because I just want to be pressed up against him and in a more.. tender way? I don’t know how to explain it. I love to touch and stroke and just hold his penis, but I don’t really like to spit on it and lick/suck it anymore because it feels kind of obscene, and I feel disconnected from him when I do it. My boyfriend has noticed that theres been a change in my sex drive and what I’m into doing, and I don’t know how to explain to him that this is how I’m feeling because I don’t want him to feel hurt and think that I don’t want to pleasure him or have proper sex with him, and I want his sexual needs to be fulfilled. I also don’t really know why this change has happened. I just want us to cuddle and rub against each other and touch each other and kiss because I feel so happy and satisfied and connected like that, but I know that’s not the makings of a satisfying sex life for an adult man. Is there a way that we can have sex that fulfils both our needs? submitted by /u/h3rm1tfr0g [link] [comments]
When my boyfriend and I (both in our early twenties) are cuddling and kissing and moving towards having sex I feel more of an emotional desire to have him inside me than physical horniness. Like I just want us to bear hug and hold his penis inside me and move in and out minimally and slowly, as I’m pretty impartial to the physical sensation, but find it really emotionally overwhelming yet pleasurable. It feels like emotional pleasure rather than a physical feeling.
All I can think about during sex is how much I really love him which is becoming a problem because I’m losing desire in sexual acts that I used to enjoy, like giving him head or having sex doggystyle, because I just want to be pressed up against him and in a more.. tender way? I don’t know how to explain it. I love to touch and stroke and just hold his penis, but I don’t really like to spit on it and lick/suck it anymore because it feels kind of obscene, and I feel disconnected from him when I do it.
My boyfriend has noticed that theres been a change in my sex drive and what I’m into doing, and I don’t know how to explain to him that this is how I’m feeling because I don’t want him to feel hurt and think that I don’t want to pleasure him or have proper sex with him, and I want his sexual needs to be fulfilled. I also don’t really know why this change has happened. I just want us to cuddle and rub against each other and touch each other and kiss because I feel so happy and satisfied and connected like that, but I know that’s not the makings of a satisfying sex life for an adult man.
Is there a way that we can have sex that fulfils both our needs?
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