I can’t twerk /u/DiscussionActual1464 Sex

I’m becoming insecure about my inability to move my hips alone in that bouncing motion while i’m on top. I love riding, grinding and squatting but I’m suddenly feeling extremely frustrated that I can’t twerk. I’m on my early 30’s and just starting to have a sexual life again after years (long story), and my date asked me “can you do that?!” after we saw a video of a girl doing the hip motion. And no, I can’t. He said he doesn’t mind it at all but tbh it looks like it would be something so pleasant for both of us, and it just got me thinking, how important that is to men in general and is it something you wouldn’t mind living without it? Is it that common for girls to be able to do it? Am I just being crazily insecure?

I’m becoming insecure about my inability to move my hips alone in that bouncing motion while i’m on top. I love riding, grinding and squatting but I’m suddenly feeling extremely frustrated that I can’t twerk. I’m on my early 30’s and just starting to have a sexual life again after years (long story), and my date asked me “can you do that?!” after we saw a video of a girl doing the hip motion. And no, I can’t. He said he doesn’t mind it at all but tbh it looks like it would be something so pleasant for both of us, and it just got me thinking, how important that is to men in general and is it something you wouldn’t mind living without it? Is it that common for girls to be able to do it? Am I just being crazily insecure?