I am new to masturbation and sex as a whole. Due to some weird issue with interesting anything in my vagina, I never fingered myself, but lately, I have been trying to explore myself sexually. I know the basics from what I have read, first you tease, as you get wet, you insert your finger and then you do the come-heather motion. I have tried it many times for hours on end but I cannot seem to cum.
I have tried with one finger because whenever I try more than that, it gets painful. So I insert the finger and try to follow the instructions, but nothing happens. Where am I supposed to rub? How am I supposed to feel? how deep am I suppose to go? I am so lost. I tried the come-heather motion, I wiggled my finger and tried the in-and-out motion, but I just could not make myself cum. I get the slight pleasure by doing it, but not overwhelming enough to make me cum. Am I doing something wrong? I am more concerned about how it will play out with PIV sex. Will I have the same problem?
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r/sex I am new to masturbation and sex as a whole. Due to some weird issue with interesting anything in my vagina, I never fingered myself, but lately, I have been trying to explore myself sexually. I know the basics from what I have read, first you tease, as you get wet, you insert your finger and then you do the come-heather motion. I have tried it many times for hours on end but I cannot seem to cum. I have tried with one finger because whenever I try more than that, it gets painful. So I insert the finger and try to follow the instructions, but nothing happens. Where am I supposed to rub? How am I supposed to feel? how deep am I suppose to go? I am so lost. I tried the come-heather motion, I wiggled my finger and tried the in-and-out motion, but I just could not make myself cum. I get the slight pleasure by doing it, but not overwhelming enough to make me cum. Am I doing something wrong? I am more concerned about how it will play out with PIV sex. Will I have the same problem? submitted by /u/After_Bid6415 [link] [comments]
I am new to masturbation and sex as a whole. Due to some weird issue with interesting anything in my vagina, I never fingered myself, but lately, I have been trying to explore myself sexually. I know the basics from what I have read, first you tease, as you get wet, you insert your finger and then you do the come-heather motion. I have tried it many times for hours on end but I cannot seem to cum.
I have tried with one finger because whenever I try more than that, it gets painful. So I insert the finger and try to follow the instructions, but nothing happens. Where am I supposed to rub? How am I supposed to feel? how deep am I suppose to go? I am so lost. I tried the come-heather motion, I wiggled my finger and tried the in-and-out motion, but I just could not make myself cum. I get the slight pleasure by doing it, but not overwhelming enough to make me cum. Am I doing something wrong? I am more concerned about how it will play out with PIV sex. Will I have the same problem?
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