i (20f) am currently on holiday with my (20m) boyfriend, we have had a very lovely sex life for the past year. almost every other day, no complaints as he loves to make sure i finish first or im enjoying it
about three months ago he started having these problems where after sex his foreskin would get really tight and hard to roll down. we are still not sure what it could mean or what it is, but it means we cant have sex after for about a week until it heals.
the problem is, when he heals he’d have been so pent up he comes in under 30 seconds which is a bit frustrating to me. its been like this for 3-4 months now.
we are on holiday by the beach and have had so many opportunities to have sex- but his penis has been healed (and we fucked) but he comes in 10 seconds- or hes just still healing.
its frustrating because we both loved sex, its a a nice part of our relationship. besides that, everything is lovely- we are enjoying our holiday and each other. but we do foreplay throughout the day and just dont do anything at the end.
we play around, but it doesnt end as it usually does and leads us to just going to bed frustrated. i feel a bit guilty also as when he comes so quick and flops down beside me i feel hollow. its just not satisfying
he doesn’t seem to be getting better, even after we wait a decent amount of time. we both got tested to see if it was that and we are sti and std free.
i have a very high libido and just feel incompatible with him rn which is annoying as we are very well in every other sense.
am i being an asshole for not just letting this pass? i masturbate but only penetration really satisfies me (i dont state this to him)
just venting here i suppose. if anyone knows what his condition might be or how i go about this please let me know
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r/sex i (20f) am currently on holiday with my (20m) boyfriend, we have had a very lovely sex life for the past year. almost every other day, no complaints as he loves to make sure i finish first or im enjoying it about three months ago he started having these problems where after sex his foreskin would get really tight and hard to roll down. we are still not sure what it could mean or what it is, but it means we cant have sex after for about a week until it heals. the problem is, when he heals he’d have been so pent up he comes in under 30 seconds which is a bit frustrating to me. its been like this for 3-4 months now. we are on holiday by the beach and have had so many opportunities to have sex- but his penis has been healed (and we fucked) but he comes in 10 seconds- or hes just still healing. its frustrating because we both loved sex, its a a nice part of our relationship. besides that, everything is lovely- we are enjoying our holiday and each other. but we do foreplay throughout the day and just dont do anything at the end. we play around, but it doesnt end as it usually does and leads us to just going to bed frustrated. i feel a bit guilty also as when he comes so quick and flops down beside me i feel hollow. its just not satisfying he doesn’t seem to be getting better, even after we wait a decent amount of time. we both got tested to see if it was that and we are sti and std free. i have a very high libido and just feel incompatible with him rn which is annoying as we are very well in every other sense. am i being an asshole for not just letting this pass? i masturbate but only penetration really satisfies me (i dont state this to him) just venting here i suppose. if anyone knows what his condition might be or how i go about this please let me know submitted by /u/turningdaisy [link] [comments]
i (20f) am currently on holiday with my (20m) boyfriend, we have had a very lovely sex life for the past year. almost every other day, no complaints as he loves to make sure i finish first or im enjoying it
about three months ago he started having these problems where after sex his foreskin would get really tight and hard to roll down. we are still not sure what it could mean or what it is, but it means we cant have sex after for about a week until it heals.
the problem is, when he heals he’d have been so pent up he comes in under 30 seconds which is a bit frustrating to me. its been like this for 3-4 months now.
we are on holiday by the beach and have had so many opportunities to have sex- but his penis has been healed (and we fucked) but he comes in 10 seconds- or hes just still healing.
its frustrating because we both loved sex, its a a nice part of our relationship. besides that, everything is lovely- we are enjoying our holiday and each other. but we do foreplay throughout the day and just dont do anything at the end.
we play around, but it doesnt end as it usually does and leads us to just going to bed frustrated. i feel a bit guilty also as when he comes so quick and flops down beside me i feel hollow. its just not satisfying
he doesn’t seem to be getting better, even after we wait a decent amount of time. we both got tested to see if it was that and we are sti and std free.
i have a very high libido and just feel incompatible with him rn which is annoying as we are very well in every other sense.
am i being an asshole for not just letting this pass? i masturbate but only penetration really satisfies me (i dont state this to him)
just venting here i suppose. if anyone knows what his condition might be or how i go about this please let me know
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