I love my girlfriend more than anything but we never have sex what should be my next move? /u/MaizeBulky53 Sex

So back in 2023 I decided to take a month off work and go on holidays as far away from home as possible and thats where I met my beautiful girlfriend and we’ve been dating ever since. While I do love her something that bugs me is how we rarely get down and dirty.

We have loads of intimacy in our relationship we’re all over each other 24/7 and while we give each other Os with our hands and stuff on a fairly regular basis we can’t have actual sex because A: it causes her pain when we do it (she’s 5”3 and I’m 6”3) so it’s a lot for her to handle and, B: she was SA’d in the past a couple of times so she has some trauma which I completely understand.

While I don’t want a lack of sexual connection to get in the way of my emotional connection with my girlfriend I also have to factor in that I’m in my 20s and I’m a sex everyday type of guy. I work 6 days a week and sometimes when I’m working all I can think about is coming home to her spending some time together and eventually getting intimate but instead she just wants to do hand stuff mostly I’d be lucky to get some actual sex once every two weeks!

So what I’m I supposed to do? I feel like I can’t leave her I’d feel horrible I wanted to be with her forever but on the other hand my physical needs aren’t being met. Any advice would be much appreciated or maybe just someone who’s had/having a similar experience and knows what I’m going through thanks.

So back in 2023 I decided to take a month off work and go on holidays as far away from home as possible and thats where I met my beautiful girlfriend and we’ve been dating ever since. While I do love her something that bugs me is how we rarely get down and dirty.

We have loads of intimacy in our relationship we’re all over each other 24/7 and while we give each other Os with our hands and stuff on a fairly regular basis we can’t have actual sex because A: it causes her pain when we do it (she’s 5”3 and I’m 6”3) so it’s a lot for her to handle and, B: she was SA’d in the past a couple of times so she has some trauma which I completely understand.

While I don’t want a lack of sexual connection to get in the way of my emotional connection with my girlfriend I also have to factor in that I’m in my 20s and I’m a sex everyday type of guy. I work 6 days a week and sometimes when I’m working all I can think about is coming home to her spending some time together and eventually getting intimate but instead she just wants to do hand stuff mostly I’d be lucky to get some actual sex once every two weeks!

So what I’m I supposed to do? I feel like I can’t leave her I’d feel horrible I wanted to be with her forever but on the other hand my physical needs aren’t being met. Any advice would be much appreciated or maybe just someone who’s had/having a similar experience and knows what I’m going through thanks.