How to bring up sensitive topics in a relationship e.g sex? /u/Ok_Mixture_3480 Sex

I (22f) am in a 6 month relationship with bf (25m). This is my first relationship and I’m struggling to know the right to bring up certain concerns and things on my mind. He has never done oral on me and I have stated that during sex that I want him to do it and he sad not yet.

He is caring and giving in the relationship, paying for everything, acts of service and words of affirmation. But oral is something that makes me feel desired and turns me on a lot. After we had sex once I said I really like oral and he said something along the lines of he’s not obsessed with it like some men but would do it but needs more time to feel comfortable to do it.

I am not really very wet before we have sex and there isn’t enough fingering or foreplay to turn me on. We use lube and piv is enjoyable (he’s made me cum from it once) but nearly every time I don’t cum. Sometimes he doesn’t come either but he’s come more than me.

I have tried to give him oral and I really crave to make him feel good, I would do it for longer if he let me and I felt that it would be reciprocated. Recently I’ve been feeling self-conscious about my vagina and my taste even though he said it wasn’t me that meant he needed time to go down on me.

This has been on my mind for months and I’ve cried about it bc I’ve question whether it is me or even if it’s not it may be a dealbreaker. He is away and back in a few weeks but I’m wonder if it’s ok to bring this up over text or a phone call. I’m nervous I’ll push him away from doing it at all, I don’t want him to do it if he won’t enjoy it, bc a guy wanting to is a huge part of the reason it turns me on.

I (22f) am in a 6 month relationship with bf (25m). This is my first relationship and I’m struggling to know the right to bring up certain concerns and things on my mind. He has never done oral on me and I have stated that during sex that I want him to do it and he sad not yet.

He is caring and giving in the relationship, paying for everything, acts of service and words of affirmation. But oral is something that makes me feel desired and turns me on a lot. After we had sex once I said I really like oral and he said something along the lines of he’s not obsessed with it like some men but would do it but needs more time to feel comfortable to do it.

I am not really very wet before we have sex and there isn’t enough fingering or foreplay to turn me on. We use lube and piv is enjoyable (he’s made me cum from it once) but nearly every time I don’t cum. Sometimes he doesn’t come either but he’s come more than me.

I have tried to give him oral and I really crave to make him feel good, I would do it for longer if he let me and I felt that it would be reciprocated. Recently I’ve been feeling self-conscious about my vagina and my taste even though he said it wasn’t me that meant he needed time to go down on me.

This has been on my mind for months and I’ve cried about it bc I’ve question whether it is me or even if it’s not it may be a dealbreaker. He is away and back in a few weeks but I’m wonder if it’s ok to bring this up over text or a phone call. I’m nervous I’ll push him away from doing it at all, I don’t want him to do it if he won’t enjoy it, bc a guy wanting to is a huge part of the reason it turns me on.