My (25M) Girlfriend (37) regular prefers masturbation with slightly bigger dildo than sex with me and lies about it
My girlfriend is a little older than me and has a high sex drive. I knew she did and that’s perfectly fine. We’ve been together for 5 months and went from having need multiple times a day to a few times a week now. I’ll admit that I have trust issues and a hard time believing her when she says certain things. I always thought that my penis was no more than average and she says it’s the biggest she’s ever had. I never measured before because I’d honestly rather not know. But she bought a new dildo as a “prank”that’s a little bigger than me. Well I ended up finding it on accident because she keeps it in our bathroom drawer. I hate to admit this but I know she uses it every time that she showers because she doesn’t moan while doing it but I can hear the extra movement through the walls and it’s obvious something is going on in there. But I also check to see if it’s wet from the shower and it is almost everyday. When we have sex I make her orgasm at least two to three times usually. But she’ll still go and “clean up” or if we don’t have sex she’ll take a shower at a random time even though she’s already had one for the day. She’s never had a problem with us having sex on her period but recently she hasn’t wanted to and it’s been 12 days of no sex. But she still masturbates frequently. And she’ll lie to me without me bringing it up and say she hardly uses it. So I feel like she would rather use the dildo than sex with me. I don’t know if I’m venting or don’t know what to do but any suggestions would be appreciated.
TL;DR: Girlfriend regular prefers masturbation with slightly bigger dildo than sex with me and lies about it
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r/sex My (25M) Girlfriend (37) regular prefers masturbation with slightly bigger dildo than sex with me and lies about it My girlfriend is a little older than me and has a high sex drive. I knew she did and that’s perfectly fine. We’ve been together for 5 months and went from having need multiple times a day to a few times a week now. I’ll admit that I have trust issues and a hard time believing her when she says certain things. I always thought that my penis was no more than average and she says it’s the biggest she’s ever had. I never measured before because I’d honestly rather not know. But she bought a new dildo as a “prank”that’s a little bigger than me. Well I ended up finding it on accident because she keeps it in our bathroom drawer. I hate to admit this but I know she uses it every time that she showers because she doesn’t moan while doing it but I can hear the extra movement through the walls and it’s obvious something is going on in there. But I also check to see if it’s wet from the shower and it is almost everyday. When we have sex I make her orgasm at least two to three times usually. But she’ll still go and “clean up” or if we don’t have sex she’ll take a shower at a random time even though she’s already had one for the day. She’s never had a problem with us having sex on her period but recently she hasn’t wanted to and it’s been 12 days of no sex. But she still masturbates frequently. And she’ll lie to me without me bringing it up and say she hardly uses it. So I feel like she would rather use the dildo than sex with me. I don’t know if I’m venting or don’t know what to do but any suggestions would be appreciated. TL;DR: Girlfriend regular prefers masturbation with slightly bigger dildo than sex with me and lies about it submitted by /u/ConfusedSoul1661 [link] [comments]
My (25M) Girlfriend (37) regular prefers masturbation with slightly bigger dildo than sex with me and lies about it
My girlfriend is a little older than me and has a high sex drive. I knew she did and that’s perfectly fine. We’ve been together for 5 months and went from having need multiple times a day to a few times a week now. I’ll admit that I have trust issues and a hard time believing her when she says certain things. I always thought that my penis was no more than average and she says it’s the biggest she’s ever had. I never measured before because I’d honestly rather not know. But she bought a new dildo as a “prank”that’s a little bigger than me. Well I ended up finding it on accident because she keeps it in our bathroom drawer. I hate to admit this but I know she uses it every time that she showers because she doesn’t moan while doing it but I can hear the extra movement through the walls and it’s obvious something is going on in there. But I also check to see if it’s wet from the shower and it is almost everyday. When we have sex I make her orgasm at least two to three times usually. But she’ll still go and “clean up” or if we don’t have sex she’ll take a shower at a random time even though she’s already had one for the day. She’s never had a problem with us having sex on her period but recently she hasn’t wanted to and it’s been 12 days of no sex. But she still masturbates frequently. And she’ll lie to me without me bringing it up and say she hardly uses it. So I feel like she would rather use the dildo than sex with me. I don’t know if I’m venting or don’t know what to do but any suggestions would be appreciated.
TL;DR: Girlfriend regular prefers masturbation with slightly bigger dildo than sex with me and lies about it
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