I dont understand why is it like that. She told me she NEVER wants sex. But then why does she love me? In my opinion, out of love after time, both partners will want to have sex.
Now i brought this issue up and i told her that i dont feel valued. Her responses as always on this topic were basically her going into victim mode and trying to make me feel guilty. She said something in the lines of “so what do you think i should do if i dont want it? force myself just for you?” and “oh so you are thinking that no sex equals no love?”
Worst thing is that we are at the age of basically highest libido in our lives (im 19, she is 18) and i dont see her wanting to change her view on sex at all.
And no she is not asexual. She said she had sex twice with her ex boyfriend at the age of 15. She also watches porn and masturbates.
Genuinely i have no idea what to do, because aside from bedroom being dead, everything is going really good.
Worth mentioning that, yes, she would give me a blowjob few times during the relationship but it would only last 2-3 minutes.
What do i do? I do not want to lose her but on the other hand i really feel unvalued and i really want to have sexual stuff in my life, especially at this age.
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r/sex I dont understand why is it like that. She told me she NEVER wants sex. But then why does she love me? In my opinion, out of love after time, both partners will want to have sex. Now i brought this issue up and i told her that i dont feel valued. Her responses as always on this topic were basically her going into victim mode and trying to make me feel guilty. She said something in the lines of “so what do you think i should do if i dont want it? force myself just for you?” and “oh so you are thinking that no sex equals no love?” Worst thing is that we are at the age of basically highest libido in our lives (im 19, she is 18) and i dont see her wanting to change her view on sex at all. And no she is not asexual. She said she had sex twice with her ex boyfriend at the age of 15. She also watches porn and masturbates. Genuinely i have no idea what to do, because aside from bedroom being dead, everything is going really good. Worth mentioning that, yes, she would give me a blowjob few times during the relationship but it would only last 2-3 minutes. What do i do? I do not want to lose her but on the other hand i really feel unvalued and i really want to have sexual stuff in my life, especially at this age. submitted by /u/youngandmasc [link] [comments]
I dont understand why is it like that. She told me she NEVER wants sex. But then why does she love me? In my opinion, out of love after time, both partners will want to have sex.
Now i brought this issue up and i told her that i dont feel valued. Her responses as always on this topic were basically her going into victim mode and trying to make me feel guilty. She said something in the lines of “so what do you think i should do if i dont want it? force myself just for you?” and “oh so you are thinking that no sex equals no love?”
Worst thing is that we are at the age of basically highest libido in our lives (im 19, she is 18) and i dont see her wanting to change her view on sex at all.
And no she is not asexual. She said she had sex twice with her ex boyfriend at the age of 15. She also watches porn and masturbates.
Genuinely i have no idea what to do, because aside from bedroom being dead, everything is going really good.
Worth mentioning that, yes, she would give me a blowjob few times during the relationship but it would only last 2-3 minutes.
What do i do? I do not want to lose her but on the other hand i really feel unvalued and i really want to have sexual stuff in my life, especially at this age.
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