I (26 F) have been dating a guy (28M) for a few months now. I’m white and he is black.
Every single time we have sex, he mentions up his race. He’ll ask if I like his ‘big black cock’, and if I’ve missed his BBC, and if I love BBC. A lot of the dirty talk he says does cycle back to the fact he is a black man. He has in the past asked if I have dated other black guys, of which I told him I’ve dated many different races.
Basically, my question is what do I say in those moments? Usually I just pass over it and say other things, but recently he’s started repeating it – almost as if he is wanting me to really engage with it. It happens every single time we have sex. If it’s something he is into, that’s fine, but I don’t want to automatically start referring to his dick as a BBC in the bedroom, because I don’t want him to think I am fetishising him in any way (even though he is the one bringing it up). Or since he’s initiating it, is it fine for me to engage with it?
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r/sex I (26 F) have been dating a guy (28M) for a few months now. I’m white and he is black. Every single time we have sex, he mentions up his race. He’ll ask if I like his ‘big black cock’, and if I’ve missed his BBC, and if I love BBC. A lot of the dirty talk he says does cycle back to the fact he is a black man. He has in the past asked if I have dated other black guys, of which I told him I’ve dated many different races. Basically, my question is what do I say in those moments? Usually I just pass over it and say other things, but recently he’s started repeating it – almost as if he is wanting me to really engage with it. It happens every single time we have sex. If it’s something he is into, that’s fine, but I don’t want to automatically start referring to his dick as a BBC in the bedroom, because I don’t want him to think I am fetishising him in any way (even though he is the one bringing it up). Or since he’s initiating it, is it fine for me to engage with it? submitted by /u/Old-Economics3063 [link] [comments]
I (26 F) have been dating a guy (28M) for a few months now. I’m white and he is black.
Every single time we have sex, he mentions up his race. He’ll ask if I like his ‘big black cock’, and if I’ve missed his BBC, and if I love BBC. A lot of the dirty talk he says does cycle back to the fact he is a black man. He has in the past asked if I have dated other black guys, of which I told him I’ve dated many different races.
Basically, my question is what do I say in those moments? Usually I just pass over it and say other things, but recently he’s started repeating it – almost as if he is wanting me to really engage with it. It happens every single time we have sex. If it’s something he is into, that’s fine, but I don’t want to automatically start referring to his dick as a BBC in the bedroom, because I don’t want him to think I am fetishising him in any way (even though he is the one bringing it up). Or since he’s initiating it, is it fine for me to engage with it?
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