Hello,
My wife and I both work full time, manage our household, and most of all parent two crazy young children.
I have “different” (kinky) sexual preferences; I often enjoy to take the submissive role and explore a femdom dynamic. My wife knows this, to a large degree, and over the years we have done a fair amount of this play. She doesn’t often initiate it (except sometimes when she’s drunk) but has always been receptive and says she enjoys it.
I’m a bit insecure when it comes to initiating kinky play however, wondering if she actually does enjoy it or is just playing along for my sake.
Something I (and quite possibly her too) seem to have trouble with is transitioning from our daily life role and mindset, to the role or mindset I enjoy sexually.
I take a rather traditional man/father role keeping everything in order throughout the day, but there is a large contrast with the role or mindset I enjoy in the bedroom.
It often culminates in me feeling too insecure or embarrassed to initiate the type of sex I desire. And when my wife fails to read my mind and initiate kinky sex, I read it as a total lack of interest on her part.
Any advice on how to better deal with this is appreciated!
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r/sex Hello, My wife and I both work full time, manage our household, and most of all parent two crazy young children. I have “different” (kinky) sexual preferences; I often enjoy to take the submissive role and explore a femdom dynamic. My wife knows this, to a large degree, and over the years we have done a fair amount of this play. She doesn’t often initiate it (except sometimes when she’s drunk) but has always been receptive and says she enjoys it. I’m a bit insecure when it comes to initiating kinky play however, wondering if she actually does enjoy it or is just playing along for my sake. Something I (and quite possibly her too) seem to have trouble with is transitioning from our daily life role and mindset, to the role or mindset I enjoy sexually. I take a rather traditional man/father role keeping everything in order throughout the day, but there is a large contrast with the role or mindset I enjoy in the bedroom. It often culminates in me feeling too insecure or embarrassed to initiate the type of sex I desire. And when my wife fails to read my mind and initiate kinky sex, I read it as a total lack of interest on her part. Any advice on how to better deal with this is appreciated! submitted by /u/jcko9 [link] [comments]
Hello,
My wife and I both work full time, manage our household, and most of all parent two crazy young children.
I have “different” (kinky) sexual preferences; I often enjoy to take the submissive role and explore a femdom dynamic. My wife knows this, to a large degree, and over the years we have done a fair amount of this play. She doesn’t often initiate it (except sometimes when she’s drunk) but has always been receptive and says she enjoys it.
I’m a bit insecure when it comes to initiating kinky play however, wondering if she actually does enjoy it or is just playing along for my sake.
Something I (and quite possibly her too) seem to have trouble with is transitioning from our daily life role and mindset, to the role or mindset I enjoy sexually.
I take a rather traditional man/father role keeping everything in order throughout the day, but there is a large contrast with the role or mindset I enjoy in the bedroom.
It often culminates in me feeling too insecure or embarrassed to initiate the type of sex I desire. And when my wife fails to read my mind and initiate kinky sex, I read it as a total lack of interest on her part.
Any advice on how to better deal with this is appreciated!
submitted by /u/jcko9
[link] [comments]