I have currently with me second ever boyfriend. We’ve been together for 1,5 years and he’s the first ive ever been intimate with but I am not his first. He always tells me that he is satisfied with our sex life but I am feeling very insecure none the less.
He has always been able to make me come and even squirt. Every single time without fail. He is good with his hands, good with his mouth and good with his penis. On the other hand I’ve never been able to make him finish, not once. Every time we have sex I give him a blowjob and a handjob but I don’t think he even gets close to finishing. Even during sex he doesn’t come from PIV.
I know that most likely it’s not my fault but I can’t help but feel really insecure. I wonder if I’m doing things wrong or if there is something wrong with me. I wonder if he’s just not able to finish with me but he did with his previous partners. He also doesn’t give me a lot of directions, he just tells me to do something but not how. To me it’s very unclear what he likes. And I have heard before that this is not very uncommon amongst men but I’m still very insecure. I’m looking for advice on what to do and maybe some encouragement! 🙂
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r/sex I have currently with me second ever boyfriend. We’ve been together for 1,5 years and he’s the first ive ever been intimate with but I am not his first. He always tells me that he is satisfied with our sex life but I am feeling very insecure none the less. He has always been able to make me come and even squirt. Every single time without fail. He is good with his hands, good with his mouth and good with his penis. On the other hand I’ve never been able to make him finish, not once. Every time we have sex I give him a blowjob and a handjob but I don’t think he even gets close to finishing. Even during sex he doesn’t come from PIV. I know that most likely it’s not my fault but I can’t help but feel really insecure. I wonder if I’m doing things wrong or if there is something wrong with me. I wonder if he’s just not able to finish with me but he did with his previous partners. He also doesn’t give me a lot of directions, he just tells me to do something but not how. To me it’s very unclear what he likes. And I have heard before that this is not very uncommon amongst men but I’m still very insecure. I’m looking for advice on what to do and maybe some encouragement! 🙂 submitted by /u/Justgoingtroughlife [link] [comments]
I have currently with me second ever boyfriend. We’ve been together for 1,5 years and he’s the first ive ever been intimate with but I am not his first. He always tells me that he is satisfied with our sex life but I am feeling very insecure none the less.
He has always been able to make me come and even squirt. Every single time without fail. He is good with his hands, good with his mouth and good with his penis. On the other hand I’ve never been able to make him finish, not once. Every time we have sex I give him a blowjob and a handjob but I don’t think he even gets close to finishing. Even during sex he doesn’t come from PIV.
I know that most likely it’s not my fault but I can’t help but feel really insecure. I wonder if I’m doing things wrong or if there is something wrong with me. I wonder if he’s just not able to finish with me but he did with his previous partners. He also doesn’t give me a lot of directions, he just tells me to do something but not how. To me it’s very unclear what he likes. And I have heard before that this is not very uncommon amongst men but I’m still very insecure. I’m looking for advice on what to do and maybe some encouragement! 🙂
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