Her pleasure/ why can’t I last as long as I used to? /u/last_and_lonley Sex

I’m with a new partner after taking almost 2 years recovering from a bad situation, and now that we’re active I can’t last inside for nearly as long as I used to. my partner is very reassuring but I want it to last longer for both our pleasures, I always make sure she gets hers first I’m more than happy to give oral(shame on men who don’t)and have always loved finger play but I put it in and can’t last, like round 2 a bit better but still not nearly as long as previous relationship, it feels embarrassing I know it shouldn’t, but I want to make pleasure last and not in the rent a hotel for a couple days and just don’t stop trying, but I really want her to cum with me inside, and want to try things that would only really be fun if I can keep it going, I don’t need much recovery between sessions so that’s not a big issue but not the same if I start and stop to much I can’t imagine thats the greatest for my partner you can tell when she’s enjoying it and I keep pace as much as I can even after I cum but we all know that’s not the same nor sustainable blgive me 2 mins and some cuddling and rubbing and I’m right back in…. I’m getting carried away😅

Her pleasure is the most important part we all know a man will get his and I really want to ensure my partner is well taken care of sexually. Any advice appreciated.

I’m with a new partner after taking almost 2 years recovering from a bad situation, and now that we’re active I can’t last inside for nearly as long as I used to. my partner is very reassuring but I want it to last longer for both our pleasures, I always make sure she gets hers first I’m more than happy to give oral(shame on men who don’t)and have always loved finger play but I put it in and can’t last, like round 2 a bit better but still not nearly as long as previous relationship, it feels embarrassing I know it shouldn’t, but I want to make pleasure last and not in the rent a hotel for a couple days and just don’t stop trying, but I really want her to cum with me inside, and want to try things that would only really be fun if I can keep it going, I don’t need much recovery between sessions so that’s not a big issue but not the same if I start and stop to much I can’t imagine thats the greatest for my partner you can tell when she’s enjoying it and I keep pace as much as I can even after I cum but we all know that’s not the same nor sustainable blgive me 2 mins and some cuddling and rubbing and I’m right back in…. I’m getting carried away😅

Her pleasure is the most important part we all know a man will get his and I really want to ensure my partner is well taken care of sexually. Any advice appreciated.