We’ve been together for 2 years and neither of us have changed physical appearance in that time so I would like to think or hope at least it’s not me! We had an amazing sex life up until about 2 months ago but nothing had changed it was almost over night. He’s not masturbating and doesn’t seem interested in sex at all anymore and I really don’t know why. I’ve had conversations with him asking if he is stressed or if it’s his confidence or if it’s me etc but he just said he ‘isn’t feeling horny anymore’ we have an amazing relationship otherwise. When I have a conversation with him about it we do have sex later on that day but it feels like he’s doing it as a chore which makes me feel horrible so I’ve stopped mentioning it. I’ve also tried other ways previously to re-engage him in the form of new sex toys, porn and simply telling him that he’s attractive time to time. For the last couple of weeks nearly every night he says he has dreams about me cheating on him because of our poor sex life (which I would never do and reassure him of this) but it annoys me because I feel if he has thoughts/ ‘dreams’ about me cheating because of it why won’t he fix the problem? But maybe I’m being irrational. What should I do?
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r/sex We’ve been together for 2 years and neither of us have changed physical appearance in that time so I would like to think or hope at least it’s not me! We had an amazing sex life up until about 2 months ago but nothing had changed it was almost over night. He’s not masturbating and doesn’t seem interested in sex at all anymore and I really don’t know why. I’ve had conversations with him asking if he is stressed or if it’s his confidence or if it’s me etc but he just said he ‘isn’t feeling horny anymore’ we have an amazing relationship otherwise. When I have a conversation with him about it we do have sex later on that day but it feels like he’s doing it as a chore which makes me feel horrible so I’ve stopped mentioning it. I’ve also tried other ways previously to re-engage him in the form of new sex toys, porn and simply telling him that he’s attractive time to time. For the last couple of weeks nearly every night he says he has dreams about me cheating on him because of our poor sex life (which I would never do and reassure him of this) but it annoys me because I feel if he has thoughts/ ‘dreams’ about me cheating because of it why won’t he fix the problem? But maybe I’m being irrational. What should I do? submitted by /u/ReasonableExtreme615 [link] [comments]
We’ve been together for 2 years and neither of us have changed physical appearance in that time so I would like to think or hope at least it’s not me! We had an amazing sex life up until about 2 months ago but nothing had changed it was almost over night. He’s not masturbating and doesn’t seem interested in sex at all anymore and I really don’t know why. I’ve had conversations with him asking if he is stressed or if it’s his confidence or if it’s me etc but he just said he ‘isn’t feeling horny anymore’ we have an amazing relationship otherwise. When I have a conversation with him about it we do have sex later on that day but it feels like he’s doing it as a chore which makes me feel horrible so I’ve stopped mentioning it. I’ve also tried other ways previously to re-engage him in the form of new sex toys, porn and simply telling him that he’s attractive time to time. For the last couple of weeks nearly every night he says he has dreams about me cheating on him because of our poor sex life (which I would never do and reassure him of this) but it annoys me because I feel if he has thoughts/ ‘dreams’ about me cheating because of it why won’t he fix the problem? But maybe I’m being irrational. What should I do?
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