I (M38) have been dating my girlfriend (F34) for half a year now and I really really like/nay love her. Our sex life is great, we are doing it regularly. I know I’m good in the sack, she cums frequently and so did my exes before. She also keeps telling em that she loves our sex.
I love that she is lustful and in touch with her sexuality. I don’t mind her or us using toys and ofc her masturbating is not only fine but super hot. I do it ,too when we don’t see each other and she is obviously no slave to my cock. In the big picture there is absolutely no problem.
My issue is to cope with her rabbid vibrator explicitly. She told me she loves it and that at times she can have 8+ ograsms with it. What the hell am I supposed to do with this information? I love her lust for pleasure, but lets be real: I (or any man) can perform as good as I want, those things can do stuff I as a man simply will never be able to pull off. It will always outperform me in terms of sexual pleasure.
Does anybody have any tangible advice on how to cope with these things? I know those are toxic thoughts, but I honestly can’t tell why this insecurity is hitting me this hard.
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r/sex I (M38) have been dating my girlfriend (F34) for half a year now and I really really like/nay love her. Our sex life is great, we are doing it regularly. I know I’m good in the sack, she cums frequently and so did my exes before. She also keeps telling em that she loves our sex. I love that she is lustful and in touch with her sexuality. I don’t mind her or us using toys and ofc her masturbating is not only fine but super hot. I do it ,too when we don’t see each other and she is obviously no slave to my cock. In the big picture there is absolutely no problem. My issue is to cope with her rabbid vibrator explicitly. She told me she loves it and that at times she can have 8+ ograsms with it. What the hell am I supposed to do with this information? I love her lust for pleasure, but lets be real: I (or any man) can perform as good as I want, those things can do stuff I as a man simply will never be able to pull off. It will always outperform me in terms of sexual pleasure. Does anybody have any tangible advice on how to cope with these things? I know those are toxic thoughts, but I honestly can’t tell why this insecurity is hitting me this hard. submitted by /u/JahSteez47 [link] [comments]
I (M38) have been dating my girlfriend (F34) for half a year now and I really really like/nay love her. Our sex life is great, we are doing it regularly. I know I’m good in the sack, she cums frequently and so did my exes before. She also keeps telling em that she loves our sex.
I love that she is lustful and in touch with her sexuality. I don’t mind her or us using toys and ofc her masturbating is not only fine but super hot. I do it ,too when we don’t see each other and she is obviously no slave to my cock. In the big picture there is absolutely no problem.
My issue is to cope with her rabbid vibrator explicitly. She told me she loves it and that at times she can have 8+ ograsms with it. What the hell am I supposed to do with this information? I love her lust for pleasure, but lets be real: I (or any man) can perform as good as I want, those things can do stuff I as a man simply will never be able to pull off. It will always outperform me in terms of sexual pleasure.
Does anybody have any tangible advice on how to cope with these things? I know those are toxic thoughts, but I honestly can’t tell why this insecurity is hitting me this hard.
submitted by /u/JahSteez47
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