My (23M) girlfriend (21F) feels pain when trying to do anything sexual. /u/BowlOfPoodleNoodles Sex

Hi everyone. My girlfriend has always wanted to do sex with me. We tried once through different positions but can’t cause she wasn’t feeling anything but some pain. She doesn’t feel pleasure when I insert and thrust and it starts hurting or even when we did foreplay for a bit she wasn’t getting wet. She’s mentally broken cause she’s mad that she can’t get horny or enjoy sex. She thinks she’s broken (I remind her she’s not) and her family just says that she’s broken. I don’t know if it’s me because I’ve been with dozens of girls and I’ve been able to make them orgasm from just head alone. I do know that you have to stimulate the clit so we’ve tried me licking her lick, using a finger, even using some toys with different types of lubricants but she said she doesn’t feel anything. Apparently back then some person rubbed her clit super super hard and made it bleed and inserted into her and made her bleed even more. We’re seeing the ob/gyn for advice on what to do. I’m just curious if there’s anyone that has had this issue where they want to do sexual activities with someone but can’t cause it hurts/can’t get horny. I love her and don’t want to leave her. It’s a little hard on me cause I’ve always had a high sex drive so not being able to do this has put a little damper on my health. She loves giving me head and stuff and I’m blessed for that but I would love for us to have a bonding moment where she doesn’t feel pain but actual pleasure.

Hi everyone. My girlfriend has always wanted to do sex with me. We tried once through different positions but can’t cause she wasn’t feeling anything but some pain. She doesn’t feel pleasure when I insert and thrust and it starts hurting or even when we did foreplay for a bit she wasn’t getting wet. She’s mentally broken cause she’s mad that she can’t get horny or enjoy sex. She thinks she’s broken (I remind her she’s not) and her family just says that she’s broken. I don’t know if it’s me because I’ve been with dozens of girls and I’ve been able to make them orgasm from just head alone. I do know that you have to stimulate the clit so we’ve tried me licking her lick, using a finger, even using some toys with different types of lubricants but she said she doesn’t feel anything. Apparently back then some person rubbed her clit super super hard and made it bleed and inserted into her and made her bleed even more. We’re seeing the ob/gyn for advice on what to do. I’m just curious if there’s anyone that has had this issue where they want to do sexual activities with someone but can’t cause it hurts/can’t get horny. I love her and don’t want to leave her. It’s a little hard on me cause I’ve always had a high sex drive so not being able to do this has put a little damper on my health. She loves giving me head and stuff and I’m blessed for that but I would love for us to have a bonding moment where she doesn’t feel pain but actual pleasure.