I am 30M and my gf 30F has never masturbated or orgasmed in her life, not even on her own, and hasn’t even tried? /u/Electronic_Jicama392 Sex

Hi everyone! My gf and I have been together almost a year, and we’ve been having sex for the past 4 months or so. She was a virgin before we got together.

I found out when we started having sex that she had never masturbated, had an orgasm, or used a vibrator or anything like that. She told me she just never felt inclined to try.

I thought she might be asexual or something, but that is far from the case it seems now anyway. She gets aroused, she enjoys making out, having her nipples stimulated and even tells me she likes penetration, but doesn’t get that much pleasure from it. She verbally tells me when she’s horny also.

Problem is, nothing I do seems to give her much pleasure inside or outside of her vagina. Giving her oral doesn’t do much for her, fingering her inside or out feels ok but not great. And I can’t even touch her clit, she says it just feels weird and wants me to stop every time. I bought a vibrator and used it with her, she said it felt great for about 2 minutes, and then no matter what spot she put it on after that did nothing for her.

TLDR: She won’t experiment on her own, she’s told me that multiple times. So I’m sorta left trying to figure out how to get her to orgasm, and I’m really sad that I can’t. Occasionally she’ll tell me she feels pleasure when I go deep, or suck on her nipples, but nothing seems to be consistent. Also, she says penetration hurts if her legs aren’t relaxed. Missionary is all she’s been comfortable trying so far, but I think doggy would be better for her if she likes it deep?

Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!

Hi everyone! My gf and I have been together almost a year, and we’ve been having sex for the past 4 months or so. She was a virgin before we got together.

I found out when we started having sex that she had never masturbated, had an orgasm, or used a vibrator or anything like that. She told me she just never felt inclined to try.

I thought she might be asexual or something, but that is far from the case it seems now anyway. She gets aroused, she enjoys making out, having her nipples stimulated and even tells me she likes penetration, but doesn’t get that much pleasure from it. She verbally tells me when she’s horny also.

Problem is, nothing I do seems to give her much pleasure inside or outside of her vagina. Giving her oral doesn’t do much for her, fingering her inside or out feels ok but not great. And I can’t even touch her clit, she says it just feels weird and wants me to stop every time. I bought a vibrator and used it with her, she said it felt great for about 2 minutes, and then no matter what spot she put it on after that did nothing for her.

TLDR: She won’t experiment on her own, she’s told me that multiple times. So I’m sorta left trying to figure out how to get her to orgasm, and I’m really sad that I can’t. Occasionally she’ll tell me she feels pleasure when I go deep, or suck on her nipples, but nothing seems to be consistent. Also, she says penetration hurts if her legs aren’t relaxed. Missionary is all she’s been comfortable trying so far, but I think doggy would be better for her if she likes it deep?

Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!