How to deal with no sex when all I think about is sex? /u/Mammoth-Principle778 Sex

I’m a 29 year old woman, relatively good looking in the alt community, tattoos and piercings, got an alright body (I’ve lost a lot of weight so you know, skin and what not). I get plenty of compliments online etc. But in real life, men don’t seem to be too interested in me, sexually or otherwise. I’ve had sex with one woman and two men over the last three years. One of the men was amazing, like completely mind blowing and he enjoyed the same stuff I was into, we slept together a few times on the first date and decided not to see each other again as we wanted different things. The guy after that was just not great, I tried to teach him what I liked etc. but it just didn’t go well so I ended the relationship after a few months. Most of the sex I’ve had prior to that has never been… good. And I’ve had around 30 sexual partners before so it’s not a great statistic. I’ve tried the dating apps, I’ve approached men in public, it just doesn’t seem to work out. My main problem is that I think about sex all the time, like 10+ times a day. I masturbate often to try and curb the cravings, but it does nothing. But I’m kind of sick of the bad sex. I’ve brought toys into sex, explored different kinks, found out I have quite a few in the process. But it’s still so meh. So I think I’m kind of accepting the fact that I’m going down the route of celibacy at this point. How can I curb all these cravings? I fear it’s going to drive me insane, especially as my drive is increasing the older I get! Any advice at all would be appreciated

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​r/sex I’m a 29 year old woman, relatively good looking in the alt community, tattoos and piercings, got an alright body (I’ve lost a lot of weight so you know, skin and what not). I get plenty of compliments online etc. But in real life, men don’t seem to be too interested in me, sexually or otherwise. I’ve had sex with one woman and two men over the last three years. One of the men was amazing, like completely mind blowing and he enjoyed the same stuff I was into, we slept together a few times on the first date and decided not to see each other again as we wanted different things. The guy after that was just not great, I tried to teach him what I liked etc. but it just didn’t go well so I ended the relationship after a few months. Most of the sex I’ve had prior to that has never been… good. And I’ve had around 30 sexual partners before so it’s not a great statistic. I’ve tried the dating apps, I’ve approached men in public, it just doesn’t seem to work out. My main problem is that I think about sex all the time, like 10+ times a day. I masturbate often to try and curb the cravings, but it does nothing. But I’m kind of sick of the bad sex. I’ve brought toys into sex, explored different kinks, found out I have quite a few in the process. But it’s still so meh. So I think I’m kind of accepting the fact that I’m going down the route of celibacy at this point. How can I curb all these cravings? I fear it’s going to drive me insane, especially as my drive is increasing the older I get! Any advice at all would be appreciated submitted by /u/Mammoth-Principle778 [link] [comments] 

I’m a 29 year old woman, relatively good looking in the alt community, tattoos and piercings, got an alright body (I’ve lost a lot of weight so you know, skin and what not). I get plenty of compliments online etc. But in real life, men don’t seem to be too interested in me, sexually or otherwise. I’ve had sex with one woman and two men over the last three years. One of the men was amazing, like completely mind blowing and he enjoyed the same stuff I was into, we slept together a few times on the first date and decided not to see each other again as we wanted different things. The guy after that was just not great, I tried to teach him what I liked etc. but it just didn’t go well so I ended the relationship after a few months. Most of the sex I’ve had prior to that has never been… good. And I’ve had around 30 sexual partners before so it’s not a great statistic. I’ve tried the dating apps, I’ve approached men in public, it just doesn’t seem to work out. My main problem is that I think about sex all the time, like 10+ times a day. I masturbate often to try and curb the cravings, but it does nothing. But I’m kind of sick of the bad sex. I’ve brought toys into sex, explored different kinks, found out I have quite a few in the process. But it’s still so meh. So I think I’m kind of accepting the fact that I’m going down the route of celibacy at this point. How can I curb all these cravings? I fear it’s going to drive me insane, especially as my drive is increasing the older I get! Any advice at all would be appreciated

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