“Arriving” in my pants just from making out /u/Far_Chocolate_7794 Sex

I’m a 26 year old guy and I have very little sexual experience. Other than slow dances in high school and platonic hugs from women I’m attracted to, I have not received any physical touch from women in my life. This means that I’ve never kissed a girl.

It’s embarrassing and it really bothers me. Something that I should have experienced at 15 I have to worry about experiencing for the first time a decade later. I’m going to be awful at kissing, but that’s another issue for another day. I’m mostly concerned about the physical response of making out. I am 100% convinced that I will cum in my pants the first time I make out with someone. I may not have had sex before, but I know my body well enough to know this will definitely happen.

I’m worried it will be a complete turn off if I cum within 10 seconds of kissing without any clothes even coming off. I’m worried I’ll be laughed at and seen as weak and a bad lover. Then I’ll have to explain that it’s my first time, and she’ll be turned off from that. Then I’ll never the get experience and practice of kissing, so it’ll happen again with the next girl.

I’m not lying when I say I think about this about every other day. I get so anxious thinking about it and it makes me cringe. I’m so worried this will happen every time I make out with someone.

Am I worrying for nothing?

I’m a 26 year old guy and I have very little sexual experience. Other than slow dances in high school and platonic hugs from women I’m attracted to, I have not received any physical touch from women in my life. This means that I’ve never kissed a girl.

It’s embarrassing and it really bothers me. Something that I should have experienced at 15 I have to worry about experiencing for the first time a decade later. I’m going to be awful at kissing, but that’s another issue for another day. I’m mostly concerned about the physical response of making out. I am 100% convinced that I will cum in my pants the first time I make out with someone. I may not have had sex before, but I know my body well enough to know this will definitely happen.

I’m worried it will be a complete turn off if I cum within 10 seconds of kissing without any clothes even coming off. I’m worried I’ll be laughed at and seen as weak and a bad lover. Then I’ll have to explain that it’s my first time, and she’ll be turned off from that. Then I’ll never the get experience and practice of kissing, so it’ll happen again with the next girl.

I’m not lying when I say I think about this about every other day. I get so anxious thinking about it and it makes me cringe. I’m so worried this will happen every time I make out with someone.

Am I worrying for nothing?