Me (F18) and my boyfriend (M18) have been going out for a while and having sex for awhile. At the beginning of our sexual relationship there wasn’t an issue and I was pretty satisfied with how things were. He left to travel back to his home country that summer and when he got back everything went downhill.
A month after he got back I felt he didn’t want me and I communicated as much with him. He said he would do his best to change that but sex became less frequent. A little bit after that we were having sex and a little bit into it he went soft. I didn’t know what was wrong with me and honestly I was pretty hurt and I started crying but I guess he didn’t want to disappoint and asked to go again and I just nodded because when I say no he keeps asking questions so I found it easier.
It only got worse from here, he went soft more frequently and we had sex less frequently maybe about once a month. This really upset me as I felt he thinks I’m ugly or fat that’s why he keeps going soft but he assures me it’s not that. What hurts the most though is even after he is no longer hard he still keeps trying to continue having sex and I feel even more disgusting. It’s been awhile but now I just feel unwanted by him since he doesn’t make an attempt, make me feel pretty or seemingly tries. I keep asking for him to at least say something about the topic and he says he will but then he just doesn’t. I don’t think he’s interested in me sexually anymore despite him claiming otherwise and I’m not sure what to do. This whole thing has made me feel pretty awful about myself and I’m not sure how to proceed.
Any advice would be appreciated on this topic! Thank you so much
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r/sex Me (F18) and my boyfriend (M18) have been going out for a while and having sex for awhile. At the beginning of our sexual relationship there wasn’t an issue and I was pretty satisfied with how things were. He left to travel back to his home country that summer and when he got back everything went downhill. A month after he got back I felt he didn’t want me and I communicated as much with him. He said he would do his best to change that but sex became less frequent. A little bit after that we were having sex and a little bit into it he went soft. I didn’t know what was wrong with me and honestly I was pretty hurt and I started crying but I guess he didn’t want to disappoint and asked to go again and I just nodded because when I say no he keeps asking questions so I found it easier. It only got worse from here, he went soft more frequently and we had sex less frequently maybe about once a month. This really upset me as I felt he thinks I’m ugly or fat that’s why he keeps going soft but he assures me it’s not that. What hurts the most though is even after he is no longer hard he still keeps trying to continue having sex and I feel even more disgusting. It’s been awhile but now I just feel unwanted by him since he doesn’t make an attempt, make me feel pretty or seemingly tries. I keep asking for him to at least say something about the topic and he says he will but then he just doesn’t. I don’t think he’s interested in me sexually anymore despite him claiming otherwise and I’m not sure what to do. This whole thing has made me feel pretty awful about myself and I’m not sure how to proceed. Any advice would be appreciated on this topic! Thank you so much submitted by /u/Automatic_Count7134 [link] [comments]
Me (F18) and my boyfriend (M18) have been going out for a while and having sex for awhile. At the beginning of our sexual relationship there wasn’t an issue and I was pretty satisfied with how things were. He left to travel back to his home country that summer and when he got back everything went downhill.
A month after he got back I felt he didn’t want me and I communicated as much with him. He said he would do his best to change that but sex became less frequent. A little bit after that we were having sex and a little bit into it he went soft. I didn’t know what was wrong with me and honestly I was pretty hurt and I started crying but I guess he didn’t want to disappoint and asked to go again and I just nodded because when I say no he keeps asking questions so I found it easier.
It only got worse from here, he went soft more frequently and we had sex less frequently maybe about once a month. This really upset me as I felt he thinks I’m ugly or fat that’s why he keeps going soft but he assures me it’s not that. What hurts the most though is even after he is no longer hard he still keeps trying to continue having sex and I feel even more disgusting. It’s been awhile but now I just feel unwanted by him since he doesn’t make an attempt, make me feel pretty or seemingly tries. I keep asking for him to at least say something about the topic and he says he will but then he just doesn’t. I don’t think he’s interested in me sexually anymore despite him claiming otherwise and I’m not sure what to do. This whole thing has made me feel pretty awful about myself and I’m not sure how to proceed.
Any advice would be appreciated on this topic! Thank you so much
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