I will have to go in a little bit of a detail for this to make sense. My bf has a very different way of helping himself alone – he rubs himself onto the floor/bed and finishes. I give him a blowjob and we have sex often and I always finish. He says the sex and blowjob and basically anything we do, no matter how small, feels a 100x more satisfying than when he does it himself, but somehow, he never manages to finish. Here, for me, “finishing” is the secretion of semen. I understand in some cases it might not ooze out but we have been dating for over 1 year and the only times he has finished is when he is helping himself on the bed.
This has taken a toll on me, we suspect it is the inability to recreate that back and forth thrust against a flat surface, but honestly? Idk. He has never once made me feel like he’s dissatisfied with our sex life but it makes me feel like shit to not have him reach a climax when I always do.
Any suggestions help.
Edit (he asked me to add): To him, finishing doesn’t equate satisfaction. Sure, in general finishing = max satisfaction but in his case thats not the case.
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r/sex I will have to go in a little bit of a detail for this to make sense. My bf has a very different way of helping himself alone – he rubs himself onto the floor/bed and finishes. I give him a blowjob and we have sex often and I always finish. He says the sex and blowjob and basically anything we do, no matter how small, feels a 100x more satisfying than when he does it himself, but somehow, he never manages to finish. Here, for me, “finishing” is the secretion of semen. I understand in some cases it might not ooze out but we have been dating for over 1 year and the only times he has finished is when he is helping himself on the bed. This has taken a toll on me, we suspect it is the inability to recreate that back and forth thrust against a flat surface, but honestly? Idk. He has never once made me feel like he’s dissatisfied with our sex life but it makes me feel like shit to not have him reach a climax when I always do. Any suggestions help. Edit (he asked me to add): To him, finishing doesn’t equate satisfaction. Sure, in general finishing = max satisfaction but in his case thats not the case. submitted by /u/Beautiful-Apricot-36 [link] [comments]
I will have to go in a little bit of a detail for this to make sense. My bf has a very different way of helping himself alone – he rubs himself onto the floor/bed and finishes. I give him a blowjob and we have sex often and I always finish. He says the sex and blowjob and basically anything we do, no matter how small, feels a 100x more satisfying than when he does it himself, but somehow, he never manages to finish. Here, for me, “finishing” is the secretion of semen. I understand in some cases it might not ooze out but we have been dating for over 1 year and the only times he has finished is when he is helping himself on the bed.
This has taken a toll on me, we suspect it is the inability to recreate that back and forth thrust against a flat surface, but honestly? Idk. He has never once made me feel like he’s dissatisfied with our sex life but it makes me feel like shit to not have him reach a climax when I always do.
Any suggestions help.
Edit (he asked me to add): To him, finishing doesn’t equate satisfaction. Sure, in general finishing = max satisfaction but in his case thats not the case.
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