I’m a 26 year old guy and I have zero sexual experience. I’ve never had sex, never kissed a girl, have never even held hands. I feel so drastically far behind that I don’t even feel like a sexual being. I can’t actually picture myself having sex with another person.
I’ve felt like this for a while. There are several reasons I have no experience, all of which fall of my shoulders and is no one else’s fault. I’m just painfully shy and have been overweight all my life. Obviously I don’t have women tripping over themselves trying to date me. So it came down to me putting myself out there, and I just never did. Even if there were women in my past who somehow found me attractive, I would have no idea because I never did anything about it. I felt like I didn’t deserve to find love or experience romantic intimacy because I hated and continue to hate myself so much.
I’m trying to improve myself and move past all that stuff, but this just keeps lingering in my head. I can’t shake the feeling that I was just meant to not have sex. I’m not asexual. I crave sex and I want a girlfriend more than anything, but it feels so far out of reach.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get out of this mindset?
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r/sex I’m a 26 year old guy and I have zero sexual experience. I’ve never had sex, never kissed a girl, have never even held hands. I feel so drastically far behind that I don’t even feel like a sexual being. I can’t actually picture myself having sex with another person. I’ve felt like this for a while. There are several reasons I have no experience, all of which fall of my shoulders and is no one else’s fault. I’m just painfully shy and have been overweight all my life. Obviously I don’t have women tripping over themselves trying to date me. So it came down to me putting myself out there, and I just never did. Even if there were women in my past who somehow found me attractive, I would have no idea because I never did anything about it. I felt like I didn’t deserve to find love or experience romantic intimacy because I hated and continue to hate myself so much. I’m trying to improve myself and move past all that stuff, but this just keeps lingering in my head. I can’t shake the feeling that I was just meant to not have sex. I’m not asexual. I crave sex and I want a girlfriend more than anything, but it feels so far out of reach. Does anyone have any advice on how to get out of this mindset? submitted by /u/Far_Chocolate_7794 [link] [comments]
I’m a 26 year old guy and I have zero sexual experience. I’ve never had sex, never kissed a girl, have never even held hands. I feel so drastically far behind that I don’t even feel like a sexual being. I can’t actually picture myself having sex with another person.
I’ve felt like this for a while. There are several reasons I have no experience, all of which fall of my shoulders and is no one else’s fault. I’m just painfully shy and have been overweight all my life. Obviously I don’t have women tripping over themselves trying to date me. So it came down to me putting myself out there, and I just never did. Even if there were women in my past who somehow found me attractive, I would have no idea because I never did anything about it. I felt like I didn’t deserve to find love or experience romantic intimacy because I hated and continue to hate myself so much.
I’m trying to improve myself and move past all that stuff, but this just keeps lingering in my head. I can’t shake the feeling that I was just meant to not have sex. I’m not asexual. I crave sex and I want a girlfriend more than anything, but it feels so far out of reach.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get out of this mindset?
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