M28 and my gf is F23. Using a throwaway because she knows my main account. Also posted to men’s advice but may be better suited to this sub.
We were having sex and everyone was happy. Doing the usual positions and hearing the usual happy sounds. We switched to doggy and I was helping her up when her body language changed all of a sudden and she got really stiff so I asked if she was okay and she didn’t answer, so I got off of her and saw she was crying. She told me she doesn’t know why I have sex with her if Im not attracted to her and asked me to leave. I asked her what she meant because I obviously am highly attracted to her and she just said to stop lying. I didn’t know what to do I’ve never seen her like that but I didn’t wanna make her uncomfortable so I got up and left. She texted me 5 min later saying I make her feel insecure during sex because I don’t touch her body and she thinks that I think she’s repulsive and too fat. And that if I’m that unattracted to her I should just be honest because lying only makes it hurt more.
She’s a healthy weight and I love her curves so I don’t know where this is coming from. I could stare at her naked body all day if she’d let me. Honestly I try not to grip her thighs or belly or anything too much because my exes used to call me out on that, I know women are insecure about their bodies so I don’t wanna add to it. I seriously think I fucked up. What do I tell her? We were literally mid sex so I kind of want to laugh that she even thinks that’s what was on my mind she doesn’t know how hard I try to not bust quick. But she was really upset like she’s never cried during sex and I feel like the biggest loser for making her. I don’t wanna lose her.
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r/sex M28 and my gf is F23. Using a throwaway because she knows my main account. Also posted to men’s advice but may be better suited to this sub. We were having sex and everyone was happy. Doing the usual positions and hearing the usual happy sounds. We switched to doggy and I was helping her up when her body language changed all of a sudden and she got really stiff so I asked if she was okay and she didn’t answer, so I got off of her and saw she was crying. She told me she doesn’t know why I have sex with her if Im not attracted to her and asked me to leave. I asked her what she meant because I obviously am highly attracted to her and she just said to stop lying. I didn’t know what to do I’ve never seen her like that but I didn’t wanna make her uncomfortable so I got up and left. She texted me 5 min later saying I make her feel insecure during sex because I don’t touch her body and she thinks that I think she’s repulsive and too fat. And that if I’m that unattracted to her I should just be honest because lying only makes it hurt more. She’s a healthy weight and I love her curves so I don’t know where this is coming from. I could stare at her naked body all day if she’d let me. Honestly I try not to grip her thighs or belly or anything too much because my exes used to call me out on that, I know women are insecure about their bodies so I don’t wanna add to it. I seriously think I fucked up. What do I tell her? We were literally mid sex so I kind of want to laugh that she even thinks that’s what was on my mind she doesn’t know how hard I try to not bust quick. But she was really upset like she’s never cried during sex and I feel like the biggest loser for making her. I don’t wanna lose her. submitted by /u/No_Basil1065 [link] [comments]
M28 and my gf is F23. Using a throwaway because she knows my main account. Also posted to men’s advice but may be better suited to this sub.
We were having sex and everyone was happy. Doing the usual positions and hearing the usual happy sounds. We switched to doggy and I was helping her up when her body language changed all of a sudden and she got really stiff so I asked if she was okay and she didn’t answer, so I got off of her and saw she was crying. She told me she doesn’t know why I have sex with her if Im not attracted to her and asked me to leave. I asked her what she meant because I obviously am highly attracted to her and she just said to stop lying. I didn’t know what to do I’ve never seen her like that but I didn’t wanna make her uncomfortable so I got up and left. She texted me 5 min later saying I make her feel insecure during sex because I don’t touch her body and she thinks that I think she’s repulsive and too fat. And that if I’m that unattracted to her I should just be honest because lying only makes it hurt more.
She’s a healthy weight and I love her curves so I don’t know where this is coming from. I could stare at her naked body all day if she’d let me. Honestly I try not to grip her thighs or belly or anything too much because my exes used to call me out on that, I know women are insecure about their bodies so I don’t wanna add to it. I seriously think I fucked up. What do I tell her? We were literally mid sex so I kind of want to laugh that she even thinks that’s what was on my mind she doesn’t know how hard I try to not bust quick. But she was really upset like she’s never cried during sex and I feel like the biggest loser for making her. I don’t wanna lose her.
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