How to improve sex related issues with age? /u/Joshyboii55 Sex

Wasn’t sure which flair to choose so I apologize in advance, but I’ll address some simple questions hopefully get pointed into the right direction.

Lately with a new partner for the past few months and our compatability with sex is great, overall confident in my abilities and who I am overall.

My issues are this, I am a 33m, and my current partner is 34f. I have found lately my erections aren’t as strong as they used to be, and I have developed some arthritis issues in my joints, fingers and even the strength of my tongue has started to cause me pain especially after prolonged foreplay, oral, and fingering.

She gets off more so with hand play, fingering, oral stimulation. I force through the pain of my joint problems, muscle strains, etc. But today I felt I need to find some solutions for it to help make improvements to my pain as it’s less enjoyable to me but it’s not fair to my partner because I want her to also be satisfied. Joint pain actually is also in my shoulders, and other body parts, seems to happen in awkward positions.

As for the erections, it’s hit and miss, but mostly noticing my erections just aren’t very strong anymore during sex. At times it can be if I haven’t ejaculated for a week or two, than the first round I’m usually strong, but otherwise not as stiff as I’d like or sensitivity has diminished some at times. We had sex three times one evening recently, each time had weak erections, but strong only in short intervals.

Any suggestions on what I can do to improve all this would be helpful and thank you for taking the time to read this post.

Wasn’t sure which flair to choose so I apologize in advance, but I’ll address some simple questions hopefully get pointed into the right direction.

Lately with a new partner for the past few months and our compatability with sex is great, overall confident in my abilities and who I am overall.

My issues are this, I am a 33m, and my current partner is 34f. I have found lately my erections aren’t as strong as they used to be, and I have developed some arthritis issues in my joints, fingers and even the strength of my tongue has started to cause me pain especially after prolonged foreplay, oral, and fingering.

She gets off more so with hand play, fingering, oral stimulation. I force through the pain of my joint problems, muscle strains, etc. But today I felt I need to find some solutions for it to help make improvements to my pain as it’s less enjoyable to me but it’s not fair to my partner because I want her to also be satisfied. Joint pain actually is also in my shoulders, and other body parts, seems to happen in awkward positions.

As for the erections, it’s hit and miss, but mostly noticing my erections just aren’t very strong anymore during sex. At times it can be if I haven’t ejaculated for a week or two, than the first round I’m usually strong, but otherwise not as stiff as I’d like or sensitivity has diminished some at times. We had sex three times one evening recently, each time had weak erections, but strong only in short intervals.

Any suggestions on what I can do to improve all this would be helpful and thank you for taking the time to read this post.