Sorry it’s gonna be a mess. So I’ve been together with my bf for over 3 years. We have some issues but overall we’re fine. In the bedroom we’re absolutely compatible, he can also make me come (the first one of all my relationships). The only difference is that he has a higher libido. Recently I started to have a short of anxiety attack before sex. Like literally I felt in my whole body, and couldn’t find the reason. (Of course sex didn’t happen in that state) Then the next day we started making out on the couch and had sex and everything was fine. Next time back in the bedroom and same thing happens. And after that I discovered that I cannot have sex in the bed. I get stressed and anxious and my mood goes to zero. Anyone had any similar experience to this?
Also I thought that maybe it became boring and that’s why but for my bf to be able to use his finger effectively on me, we have to be in a certain pose (me laying on my back and him next to me on my right side). So my other question: what other poses work for you when your partner use their hands?
Tldr: can’t have sex in the bed because I get anxious
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r/sex Sorry it’s gonna be a mess. So I’ve been together with my bf for over 3 years. We have some issues but overall we’re fine. In the bedroom we’re absolutely compatible, he can also make me come (the first one of all my relationships). The only difference is that he has a higher libido. Recently I started to have a short of anxiety attack before sex. Like literally I felt in my whole body, and couldn’t find the reason. (Of course sex didn’t happen in that state) Then the next day we started making out on the couch and had sex and everything was fine. Next time back in the bedroom and same thing happens. And after that I discovered that I cannot have sex in the bed. I get stressed and anxious and my mood goes to zero. Anyone had any similar experience to this? Also I thought that maybe it became boring and that’s why but for my bf to be able to use his finger effectively on me, we have to be in a certain pose (me laying on my back and him next to me on my right side). So my other question: what other poses work for you when your partner use their hands? Tldr: can’t have sex in the bed because I get anxious submitted by /u/Usual_Technician_810 [link] [comments]
Sorry it’s gonna be a mess. So I’ve been together with my bf for over 3 years. We have some issues but overall we’re fine. In the bedroom we’re absolutely compatible, he can also make me come (the first one of all my relationships). The only difference is that he has a higher libido. Recently I started to have a short of anxiety attack before sex. Like literally I felt in my whole body, and couldn’t find the reason. (Of course sex didn’t happen in that state) Then the next day we started making out on the couch and had sex and everything was fine. Next time back in the bedroom and same thing happens. And after that I discovered that I cannot have sex in the bed. I get stressed and anxious and my mood goes to zero. Anyone had any similar experience to this?
Also I thought that maybe it became boring and that’s why but for my bf to be able to use his finger effectively on me, we have to be in a certain pose (me laying on my back and him next to me on my right side). So my other question: what other poses work for you when your partner use their hands?
Tldr: can’t have sex in the bed because I get anxious
submitted by /u/Usual_Technician_810
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