GF claims to like giving BJs, but it never actually happens /u/DJDarwin93 Sex

As the title says, my girlfriend claims she likes giving me BJs, but it almost never happens. At first, it was because we were both still living with our parents, and she didn’t feel comfortable doing it when we might get walked in on. I completely understood that, so I didn’t push it. (This never stopped her from letting me eat her out, and BJ’s were still a rarity when we did get time alone, but that’s besides the point.)

But now, we’ve been living together for almost five months, and it hasn’t changed. Four, maybe five, and never to completion. I don’t expect CIM every time, she says it tastes bad and I totally understand that so I never expect it, but even in foreplay a BJ is rare. She doesn’t even touch me as much as I’d like, although that has improved since living together, to be fair.

Meanwhile, I do all the stuff she likes. I eat her out until I get lockjaw, I finger her until my arms burn, I do all the positions she likes while we rarely do my favorite. She gets pretty much whatever she wants while I’m lucky to get anything I want unless I ask for it specifically. I don’t expect her to read my mind, but she knows what I like and rarely does it, while I go out of my way to please her without being asked.

And yes, before anyone says “talk to her,” I’ve tried that. Probably a half dozen times. Nothing has changed. I would NEVER cheat, no matter how unsatisfying our sex life gets I’d never do that, but I am getting to the point where I’m not putting much effort into sex anymore. It doesn’t feel like she is, so why should I? I’m not sure what the point of this post is really, I don’t know what advice someone could offer me, but I just feel like I need to talk about it.

As the title says, my girlfriend claims she likes giving me BJs, but it almost never happens. At first, it was because we were both still living with our parents, and she didn’t feel comfortable doing it when we might get walked in on. I completely understood that, so I didn’t push it. (This never stopped her from letting me eat her out, and BJ’s were still a rarity when we did get time alone, but that’s besides the point.)

But now, we’ve been living together for almost five months, and it hasn’t changed. Four, maybe five, and never to completion. I don’t expect CIM every time, she says it tastes bad and I totally understand that so I never expect it, but even in foreplay a BJ is rare. She doesn’t even touch me as much as I’d like, although that has improved since living together, to be fair.

Meanwhile, I do all the stuff she likes. I eat her out until I get lockjaw, I finger her until my arms burn, I do all the positions she likes while we rarely do my favorite. She gets pretty much whatever she wants while I’m lucky to get anything I want unless I ask for it specifically. I don’t expect her to read my mind, but she knows what I like and rarely does it, while I go out of my way to please her without being asked.

And yes, before anyone says “talk to her,” I’ve tried that. Probably a half dozen times. Nothing has changed. I would NEVER cheat, no matter how unsatisfying our sex life gets I’d never do that, but I am getting to the point where I’m not putting much effort into sex anymore. It doesn’t feel like she is, so why should I? I’m not sure what the point of this post is really, I don’t know what advice someone could offer me, but I just feel like I need to talk about it.