My boyfriend and I (24 & 26) have been together for a year now. When we first started dating, it was long-distance, and he would often ask me for “pictures.” After we finally met in person, he would occasionally perform oral on me or finger me, but he never let me touch him. If I tried, he’d get nervous, laugh, and move my hand away. Fast forward to this past August, he moved in with me. Since then, he hasn’t touched me in six months. He still won’t let me touch or see his dick, and l’ve only actually touched him once in our entire relationship. We’ve never had sex, and this has become a huge issue for me. I’ve tried communicating with him about it, but he says he doesn’t have a sex drive right now and barely gets hard when we cuddle. He also says he’s too shy to touch me and mentions his religious background as a reason he’s afraid to have sex because he’s still a virgin. However, it feels like every time I bring it up, there’s a new excuse for why he avoids intimacy. Before moving in, he wanted me to go on birth control, saying he’d be ready to be intimate if I did. I went on it for a month, but nothing changed, so I stopped. I’m extremely frustrated and would love some feedback on how to handle this.
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r/sex My boyfriend and I (24 & 26) have been together for a year now. When we first started dating, it was long-distance, and he would often ask me for “pictures.” After we finally met in person, he would occasionally perform oral on me or finger me, but he never let me touch him. If I tried, he’d get nervous, laugh, and move my hand away. Fast forward to this past August, he moved in with me. Since then, he hasn’t touched me in six months. He still won’t let me touch or see his dick, and l’ve only actually touched him once in our entire relationship. We’ve never had sex, and this has become a huge issue for me. I’ve tried communicating with him about it, but he says he doesn’t have a sex drive right now and barely gets hard when we cuddle. He also says he’s too shy to touch me and mentions his religious background as a reason he’s afraid to have sex because he’s still a virgin. However, it feels like every time I bring it up, there’s a new excuse for why he avoids intimacy. Before moving in, he wanted me to go on birth control, saying he’d be ready to be intimate if I did. I went on it for a month, but nothing changed, so I stopped. I’m extremely frustrated and would love some feedback on how to handle this. submitted by /u/Funny_Reach_4105 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend and I (24 & 26) have been together for a year now. When we first started dating, it was long-distance, and he would often ask me for “pictures.” After we finally met in person, he would occasionally perform oral on me or finger me, but he never let me touch him. If I tried, he’d get nervous, laugh, and move my hand away. Fast forward to this past August, he moved in with me. Since then, he hasn’t touched me in six months. He still won’t let me touch or see his dick, and l’ve only actually touched him once in our entire relationship. We’ve never had sex, and this has become a huge issue for me. I’ve tried communicating with him about it, but he says he doesn’t have a sex drive right now and barely gets hard when we cuddle. He also says he’s too shy to touch me and mentions his religious background as a reason he’s afraid to have sex because he’s still a virgin. However, it feels like every time I bring it up, there’s a new excuse for why he avoids intimacy. Before moving in, he wanted me to go on birth control, saying he’d be ready to be intimate if I did. I went on it for a month, but nothing changed, so I stopped. I’m extremely frustrated and would love some feedback on how to handle this.
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