Since having a child my SO has lost all interest in sex, how can I help her find it again? /u/curves_are_us Sex

Before having a child my wife had an extremely high libido. She would be fine with having sex daily, it was really limited by me. We would usually have sex average 4 times a week. She was also very adventurous basically whatever kink I wanted to try she would be down.

This all changed after the birth of my son. She has lost her libido completely. He is now 3 years old and it’s still completely absent. She has been great about it in that she understands my needs and will still have sex say 1-2 times a week but does it reluctantly. It’s not like it used to be but she does her best. I’m at a loss for how I can help her situation and she doesn’t feel like she needs to do anything, she says it’s completely natural that women lose their libido after children and there’s nothing she can do. I’ve bought her supplements like MACA that may support her libido and it ended in her fuming saying she won’t take anything as it makes the situation worse as she feels pressured. More pressure = even less desire for sex so it kind of nullifies any direct action I can take to improve the situation. Maybe I am forced to take indirect action only??

I love my wife a lot and she loves me and outside of this we are both really happy. Looking for some constructive advice from other women / couples that have experienced the same thing.

Before having a child my wife had an extremely high libido. She would be fine with having sex daily, it was really limited by me. We would usually have sex average 4 times a week. She was also very adventurous basically whatever kink I wanted to try she would be down.

This all changed after the birth of my son. She has lost her libido completely. He is now 3 years old and it’s still completely absent. She has been great about it in that she understands my needs and will still have sex say 1-2 times a week but does it reluctantly. It’s not like it used to be but she does her best. I’m at a loss for how I can help her situation and she doesn’t feel like she needs to do anything, she says it’s completely natural that women lose their libido after children and there’s nothing she can do. I’ve bought her supplements like MACA that may support her libido and it ended in her fuming saying she won’t take anything as it makes the situation worse as she feels pressured. More pressure = even less desire for sex so it kind of nullifies any direct action I can take to improve the situation. Maybe I am forced to take indirect action only??

I love my wife a lot and she loves me and outside of this we are both really happy. Looking for some constructive advice from other women / couples that have experienced the same thing.