Should I tell her I’m inexperienced sexually? /u/Super-Equipment6170 Sex

Hi all. Long story short, I (M38) am really inexperienced sexually. I’ve only been with one person and it was many years ago. We were also only intimate a handful of times.

Fast-forward to now and I’ve started dating again. I’ve been on a couple of dates with someone that I really like and we have a 3rd planned. Inevitably, I’m beginning to think about when we might become intimate and it’s making me nervous.

If you were her, would you want to know about my inexperience beforehand? I’m scared that if I tell her, it will make me seem less attractive and it’ll put her off.

Do you think I shouldn’t mention it and just go with the flow and see what happens? I think it’ll be fairly obvious to her at some point anyway, but I’m concerned that I’ll ruin things if I tell her beforehand and it also might make the first time uncomfortable for her.

Any advice/thoughts are welcome. Thanks.

Hi all. Long story short, I (M38) am really inexperienced sexually. I’ve only been with one person and it was many years ago. We were also only intimate a handful of times.

Fast-forward to now and I’ve started dating again. I’ve been on a couple of dates with someone that I really like and we have a 3rd planned. Inevitably, I’m beginning to think about when we might become intimate and it’s making me nervous.

If you were her, would you want to know about my inexperience beforehand? I’m scared that if I tell her, it will make me seem less attractive and it’ll put her off.

Do you think I shouldn’t mention it and just go with the flow and see what happens? I think it’ll be fairly obvious to her at some point anyway, but I’m concerned that I’ll ruin things if I tell her beforehand and it also might make the first time uncomfortable for her.

Any advice/thoughts are welcome. Thanks.