I, 26f, feel like before I started shaving my pubic hair I enjoyed sex, especially oral sex, more. I’ve been shaving it for a few years now mainly for aesthetic purposes. Before I did, I feel like I felt more and had more pleasure, especially with oral sex. Only 2 guys have ever really given enjoyable head to a point where my legs shook, and I’ve been with a lot of guys (I enjoy casual sex). Now it is likely that men just aren’t good at giving head, but these were both before I started shaving and out of the many guys who have went down on me, I have to wonder. This might be a stupid question, but is there a reason for that? Is pubic hair a stimulant? I want that feeling back with sex but I want to keep shaving. What should I do? What am I missing? Also, I literally can’t feel my cl*t. I don’t really enjoy self pleasure because what really turns me on is another person, but when I try, there’s no feeling there. It feels like I’m just touching another part of my skin. But there’s no pubic hair there so idk how it could correlate except for the time frame. And no, I don’t have a vibrator or dildo because I live with my family (rent is too high and I can’t afford to live by myself) and they’re very intrusive and I don’t want them to find anything. Anyway, why is this happening and what should I do? I don’t have any friends so it’s not like I can ask them and google is no help.
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r/sex I, 26f, feel like before I started shaving my pubic hair I enjoyed sex, especially oral sex, more. I’ve been shaving it for a few years now mainly for aesthetic purposes. Before I did, I feel like I felt more and had more pleasure, especially with oral sex. Only 2 guys have ever really given enjoyable head to a point where my legs shook, and I’ve been with a lot of guys (I enjoy casual sex). Now it is likely that men just aren’t good at giving head, but these were both before I started shaving and out of the many guys who have went down on me, I have to wonder. This might be a stupid question, but is there a reason for that? Is pubic hair a stimulant? I want that feeling back with sex but I want to keep shaving. What should I do? What am I missing? Also, I literally can’t feel my cl*t. I don’t really enjoy self pleasure because what really turns me on is another person, but when I try, there’s no feeling there. It feels like I’m just touching another part of my skin. But there’s no pubic hair there so idk how it could correlate except for the time frame. And no, I don’t have a vibrator or dildo because I live with my family (rent is too high and I can’t afford to live by myself) and they’re very intrusive and I don’t want them to find anything. Anyway, why is this happening and what should I do? I don’t have any friends so it’s not like I can ask them and google is no help. submitted by /u/heykidsanxietysfun [link] [comments]
I, 26f, feel like before I started shaving my pubic hair I enjoyed sex, especially oral sex, more. I’ve been shaving it for a few years now mainly for aesthetic purposes. Before I did, I feel like I felt more and had more pleasure, especially with oral sex. Only 2 guys have ever really given enjoyable head to a point where my legs shook, and I’ve been with a lot of guys (I enjoy casual sex). Now it is likely that men just aren’t good at giving head, but these were both before I started shaving and out of the many guys who have went down on me, I have to wonder. This might be a stupid question, but is there a reason for that? Is pubic hair a stimulant? I want that feeling back with sex but I want to keep shaving. What should I do? What am I missing? Also, I literally can’t feel my cl*t. I don’t really enjoy self pleasure because what really turns me on is another person, but when I try, there’s no feeling there. It feels like I’m just touching another part of my skin. But there’s no pubic hair there so idk how it could correlate except for the time frame. And no, I don’t have a vibrator or dildo because I live with my family (rent is too high and I can’t afford to live by myself) and they’re very intrusive and I don’t want them to find anything. Anyway, why is this happening and what should I do? I don’t have any friends so it’s not like I can ask them and google is no help.
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