The girl I’ve been seeing for the past two months told me last night that “maybe one day I’ll get there too” after we had sex. When I asked what she meant she told me she hasn’t had an orgasm. I was surprised by this because I’ve never had any partner issues before. I asked if she never had one period or just never with me? And she told me that she meant just with me.
We talked more about it obviously and she was surprised I didn’t notice(fair point). I just never ran into that issue after two months of sex. She mentioned that it was a comfort issue on her side and that it was nothing I was doing wrong. I asked what I could do to help and she gave me nothing besides “it’ll just take time but I’ll get there.”
She said that women don’t have orgasms every time but she feels like she has more than the average women. (But yet she’s never had one with me). I didn’t make a big deal out of it because she says she’s just too concerned with it taking too long or I’m not going to enjoy it but those seem like silly reasons to me. But if that’s true I don’t want to make it a bigger deal.
I guess I’m wondering if this is normal or has anyone had experience with this? What can I do to help the situation?
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r/sex The girl I’ve been seeing for the past two months told me last night that “maybe one day I’ll get there too” after we had sex. When I asked what she meant she told me she hasn’t had an orgasm. I was surprised by this because I’ve never had any partner issues before. I asked if she never had one period or just never with me? And she told me that she meant just with me. We talked more about it obviously and she was surprised I didn’t notice(fair point). I just never ran into that issue after two months of sex. She mentioned that it was a comfort issue on her side and that it was nothing I was doing wrong. I asked what I could do to help and she gave me nothing besides “it’ll just take time but I’ll get there.” She said that women don’t have orgasms every time but she feels like she has more than the average women. (But yet she’s never had one with me). I didn’t make a big deal out of it because she says she’s just too concerned with it taking too long or I’m not going to enjoy it but those seem like silly reasons to me. But if that’s true I don’t want to make it a bigger deal. I guess I’m wondering if this is normal or has anyone had experience with this? What can I do to help the situation? submitted by /u/QnonIsLegit [link] [comments]
The girl I’ve been seeing for the past two months told me last night that “maybe one day I’ll get there too” after we had sex. When I asked what she meant she told me she hasn’t had an orgasm. I was surprised by this because I’ve never had any partner issues before. I asked if she never had one period or just never with me? And she told me that she meant just with me.
We talked more about it obviously and she was surprised I didn’t notice(fair point). I just never ran into that issue after two months of sex. She mentioned that it was a comfort issue on her side and that it was nothing I was doing wrong. I asked what I could do to help and she gave me nothing besides “it’ll just take time but I’ll get there.”
She said that women don’t have orgasms every time but she feels like she has more than the average women. (But yet she’s never had one with me). I didn’t make a big deal out of it because she says she’s just too concerned with it taking too long or I’m not going to enjoy it but those seem like silly reasons to me. But if that’s true I don’t want to make it a bigger deal.
I guess I’m wondering if this is normal or has anyone had experience with this? What can I do to help the situation?
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