Couldn’t get as hard while penetrating as I get while masturbating. /u/royalreigns Sex

When I had sex for the first time, I was having performance anxiety and hence erection wasn’t as expected. Second time it was better but still not the hardest.

Since the first incident, I have left masturbating to porn completely. Now my problem is that whenever I’m penetrating her, the pleasure doesn’t seem to be enough for me to orgasm inside her, nor am I the hardest. But when she’s giving me handjob, it gets to the point that I cum. I want to feel the pleasure when I’m fucking her in all positions but that’s not happening.

Please tell me if abstaining completely from self pleasure as I am doing now, help me improve my game. I’m also starting kegel exercises to tighten lower muscles and hoping it will make a difference.

When I had sex for the first time, I was having performance anxiety and hence erection wasn’t as expected. Second time it was better but still not the hardest.

Since the first incident, I have left masturbating to porn completely. Now my problem is that whenever I’m penetrating her, the pleasure doesn’t seem to be enough for me to orgasm inside her, nor am I the hardest. But when she’s giving me handjob, it gets to the point that I cum. I want to feel the pleasure when I’m fucking her in all positions but that’s not happening.

Please tell me if abstaining completely from self pleasure as I am doing now, help me improve my game. I’m also starting kegel exercises to tighten lower muscles and hoping it will make a difference.